How to deal with toxic teams who talk crap to you and dont do what you ask

So i went kog last game went 5/4 the fiora went 4/9 the cho went 4/6 and the jana went 2/6. From 5 minutes in the team talked crap to me for the rest of the game. Saying that everything was my fault. Theres a team fight and the only 2 kills gotten were by me, yet they say i did no damage? Theres a dragon fight. Who goes in and saves it? Me. Yes i can mute them and stop there constant crap talk to me all game long and blaming every single fight on me. But that doesnt stop them refusing to do as i ask. I ask them to stop comming bot im behind on CS because of there constant ganks that are not working. Why keep ganking the same lane when its not working and the laner has asked you to stop? I wanted to catch up in cs. I can mute them and that solves the toxic idiots. That doesnt solve them not playing as a team and doing the opposite of what i ask. So how do i win when they wont play as a team? I can not 1v5 everyone. They complain after every fight that i do no damage...yet i checked the stats at end of the game. I did more damage then anyone on my team. I just dont get how to deal with teams that are completely toxic and also wont do what you ask and it screws you over by them, comming to my lane, taking my farm, trying to gank and failing every time when i just wanna catch up in cs and i told them that, they refused to listen.