AITA for calling out my jungler for never being ready for contesting objectives?

Was in a game where my jungler paid so much attention top and rarely came to the bottom half of the map early game. Due to this, the enemy team decided to capitalize on his absence and started taking dragons knowing it was uncontestable. After the second dragon or so I asked my jungler if he could start gravitating towards bot side whenever dragons are spawning so we at aren't just handing the enemy team free objectives. Not to mention sometimes even if we can't take it per se, the sheer presence of the enemy jungler is enough to steer people away from objectives. I got hit with the classic "no, you're dumb. you don't know what you're talking about. You're just a support player blah blah blah." I hate when people think just because you play x role means you have no idea how y role works.

Fast forward about 5 minutes and our whole team is grouped mid except our jungler. I ask him to come towards mid/top for harold control. He continued to go into all chat saying how I'm "bossing him around on how to play the game." and how I'm "toxic and putting the blame of losing the game on him." I was doing none of that. I just wanted some objectives man. I then told him "This is a team based objective game. If you're playing jungle, you should understand the power and dynamics of the jungle." That must have rubbed him the wrong way and he blew up again.

Needless to say, we lost the match. AITA?