This has been happening to me a lot more since ive gone mid, im really good at stonewalling any siege through our outer turret ( i like heimer and orianna even jayce as my mains safe good farmers whatever) i farm good and dont give up much, even stop a lot of my opponents farm, especially with heimer.
I have yet to loose the outer turret before another lanes goes down, in favor for us or not, BUT i find the other lanes when they loose lane their opponent will come help mid push on me sometimes i might end up giving up kills but i can keep my turret up still mid to late game ...somehow i always hear the same old thing you know it you love it ....
"look at your score your 0/2/ whatever you cant talk you cant blame you cant ask for help" <- had that exact thing happen playing against a direct counter i held my own and gave very little up save for a couple kills... i try telling them hey look its my counter and my tower is still up where is yours ..
"shut up your 0/2 you fed them you didnt roam and help us you didnt do this or that"
and more blame put on me and my lack of performance (cause they went ham a few times and maybe are 3/5 but deff with a losing K/D) but they feel their score means more somehow , like having kills means they did more then me... and then im to blame because of my low score ( meanwhile i always have a higher then most players in the match CS) its like i didnt do enough ... i did all i can withing the scope of my role and character but not putting up dunks means i didnt do as much as them despite them losing lane giving up roam ability not having items done... now comes the worst part when these losing games go mid to late and the other team can roam my cs will of course start to get shut down and i wont be able to finish items either .. so then i hear stuff like
" look at their build report . you have 1 top tier item by 20 mins etc etc" cause they got ham kill gold they can forget solid cs and get items off the bounty exchange of bad players while my solid play goes unnoticed or accepted as a valid contribution to the team/game ....
rant done thnx for letting me vent feels good to type it now i no longer give a shit lol i was about to delete this but figured why not post it and maybe other people can get some frustration out here too ! lol
oh and too long did not read - seems solid play and not having a kill fest to generate your gold, isnt seen as a valid contribution to a team/game at some levels, & not giving up your lane but still dieing is egregious and does nothing for the team apparently.
you should do more do it all -win lane, cs higher, roam help the other lanes, get tons of kills oh and build every top tier item in your 6 slot inventory.. then your the best and can talk about others failures.... oh if you did that no one else would have failures youd win everytime and live in ELO UTOPIA thank god for the smart kids of LoL ...