Someone enlighten me on what I can do to survive the party in bot lane.

I'm not a lucky person when it comes to matchmaking, so more often than not, my team will be the ones who are late to help, and get outplayed etc.

We all know how it goes, lane is relatively even and then the enemy JG comes, they maybe don't get anything, but then they come again and again until you're probably dead and if not, you're huddled up under tower out of fear. Meanwhile, your JG mainly CS's and ganks top occasionally, yet top is still behind lol. The instant your jg comes to gank bot, they get counter-ganked and you're all fucked, or they only get flashes then don't come back till exactly 5 minutes to get flashed on again... You're behind now, but it's not over yet, you have some kind of a chance, but everything changes when their jg comes to tower dive you with the mid laner and you're annihilated with your tower. Now the 4-0 spoon fed enemy ADC, waltz to mid lane to take the rest of the towers and end the game.

I've put so much effort into learning how to lane and to see it mean next to nothing cause the better gankers/TPs win the lane is disgusting. There has got to be something I can do to survive it that doesn't involve maining Tristana and Ezreal, or standing under tower all game. Warding is effective at only delaying the inevitable since any decent jg will kill your wards, wait for them to expire, or just wait till 6 to dive you with the mid laner. It feels like if these mofos want you and your tower and are better at macro than your mid and jg, you can bet that eventually they're gonna get your ass and that fucking tower and there's nothing you can do about it.

It's funny because even when I played mid my bot still got camped, as their jg proceeded to out macro mine, but because I was mid and got top and mid ahead, we were able to get the Jinx to late game. Had I been ADC I would've rolled over and died with the Nexus at the 20 minute mark because I have no say, I'm just at the mercy of their jg/mid and my jg/mid. It's like the only counter-play is to hope the rest of your team knows what they're doing.

TLDR; There isn't a damn thing you can do as bot laners when this shit happens besides rely on your teammates, imo, but if you guys think you know a way then please enlighten me. If there isn't one, then Riot needs to freakin' step in ASAP, this shit isn't even fun.