I can't even have fun in this jungle meta

Every game, whether I do good, bad, great, or terrible I get flamed for not picking or . This is in NORMALS. I have no problem having to play against them, other than the fact that they not only are 10x tankier than most champions but also deal just as much damage. I can't play because I get flamed for not soloing dragon level 3, but when I do I get flamed for not ganking, because I was doing a level 3 dragon. People want me to gank level 2 as and , expecting me to give them a free first blood and still not tax at all. If I play I automatically am accused of trolling (I actually had to completely stop playing him because people kept flaming me even if I carried, and that wasn't even in the current tank meta). They always want my jungle as a second farm source, and I'm not allowed to tax, then I get flamed because I'm useless because they starved me of gold. If I pick I am 100% a noob who doesn't know how to play. is apparently only allowed in top now, despite originally being much more popular in the jungle. is clearly a troll pick since he is known for not being a good champion. Building an source of damage (let alone playing full AD which I find fun) on is obviously breaking the rules and should be bannable. Farming as is punishable by law.

Any and every time I try to have fun in the jungle I get flamed 2 minutes in for not ganking already. I don't know if it's specifically this meta or what, but the past month has been the least fun I've ever had in this game.