people are ridiculous

so i play a game as darius, and i end up going 21/8/10 5 turrets, 3 inhibs, and by far the most gold on team. and throughout the match my team is like "omg this darius amazing"

meanwhile the enemy fiora is equally as good as i was, and is keeping up with me in kills/gold.

towards the end of the game no one is grouping together, our mid and adc want to surrender because i didn't build tanky (sue me i play darius like an assassin, it's fun) so we eventually get aced and lose, and im slammed with a barrage of rage and insults from my team because i wasn't able to carry better than their fiora.

i seriously don't fucking get these people. if im not winning them the game then i'm the biggest piece of shit on earth.

news flash; sometimes games can't be carried. sometimes it takes all around good teamwork and cooperation to win a game. i tried explaining it was because we weren't working together, and that's why we lost, and my team is just full on raging at me saying its all my fault because i wasn't tanking for them. that very well may be the truth, but when you're 8/8 at mid, 3/12 at jungle, and 1/11 at support, is it REALLY prudent to blame the 21/8/10? these three were spewing so much venom at me it was insane.

edit; im not saying i'm faultless. im not even blaming my team. losses happen. i accept that fact. im just tired of getting raged at if i do well but end up not carrying.