You can't POSSIBLY convince me I'm doing something wrong

18 minutes in and the score board is 20 to 3. My allies KDA... 5 deaths, 5 deaths, 4 deaths, 4 deaths. I had 2 deaths only due to ganks, as I was playing Ahri against a Panth and Akali. However, I didn't completely tower dive like it's god damn ARAM. And yet I get people telling me I'm doing something wrong? How, at 3 minutes, can I stop my ally support from going 0/4... how at 5 minutes do I keep my top from getting ganked 3 times from over pushing?

Yea, I'm trying to play this fucking game. That's what's wrong. Half tempted to quit ranked again just so I don't have to watch the complete game vomit that ranked is.