This is why i believe Diamond 5 is the most frustrating elo ever, because games are so one sided, and after having 5 one sided games even Jesus goes full BM but that's another topic entirely.
Diamond 5.
level 7
But seriously...you literally just agreed to the topic at hand;
yes we've all been feeders
If you legitimately think that you can't win a game just because one of your teammates lost their lane, you're just giving up. You are the reason your team lost. You gave up, they didn't, they were still trying. It takes an entire team to lose a game, not just one player (just as it takes an entire team to win a game). There can be plenty of reasons as to why they had a bad game;
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Teammates like you are flaming them because they die once, your abuse causes them to go on tilt (doubt themselves, get emotional, lose focus, etc..)
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The enemy camped their lane, getting a few kills on them early on. Instead of counteracting this by helping out their lane, you just gave up and let it happen, and then blamed them for the loss.
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They are legitimately not as experienced at the game as you are.
All of these instances are caused by lack of team work;
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putting your teammates on tilt; you are directly making your teammate(s) play at their worst, because you think it's okay to demean people that you don't even know about one single performance at the start of a video game.
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Not helping out teammates in lane. If they are at a disadvantage due to a legitimate number difference, you should try and get something positive out of it. I.E. if they have 4 people ganking bot, you should be pushing to take one, maybe two turrets. Don't just stand and watch, and then call your teammate bad because you think they can 1/2v4 their team, when one of them literally does no damage. If it's just you/ just you and your support you pretty much have one shot to help it go your way. If any part of your 2 man synergy is off, you will not win that match up, unless you get super lucky. For them, they can make plenty of mistakes, and still come away with a successful gank.
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They aren't as experienced as you; they may not know as much as you do. You may not be as new as they are. You can help them by giving them constructive criticism. You can tell them what they're doing wrong in a constructive way. Meaning, yes you point out what they're doing wrong, but you also give them tips on how to correct that. It's illogical to assume that everyone is either just as good as you, or even better at the game. Not everyone on the game is going to be an expert. You should expect to play with at least 1 or 2 other players that may not be as experienced as you/the rest of your team. That is literally how players get better. By learning from others.
League of legends is a team game. You actually learn how to play better from other players. If you think you got to where you're at (from the very beginning, where you started) by yourself, you're very self-centered, and you're lying to yourself. Even pro players have gotten guidance from other players throughout their "career" on league. You will not win many games if you refuse to play as a team, and instead just give up for whatever reason you may have. The game isn't supposed to be easy, it does have strategy. Yes you can get carried occasionally, but that is not the best way to win games. It has been proven that good team work, in a team oriented game, will always give you the highest chance of winning the game. Basing your chance of winning solely off of getting carried by a teammate, or carrying the team yourself puts way too much pressure on your team, or yourself, for it to work most of the time. Even if you lose a game that you had good team synergy in, it just means that the other team had even better teamwork. That's it.
You need to lose the mindset that this is a "every man for themselves" type of game. You win with teamwork. I guarantee you the best, most efficient way to lose is to give up, not die 7 times.