Its simple, I have just started ignoring the support item and farming minions alongside my adc.
There is no Rule that says I will be banned or punished for taking minions which riot themselves have stated "No one player OWNS neutral or enemy minions" And the whole "but Adc have always gotten to take all cs" THAT is a COURTESY, a quiet agreement that ceased when the adcs started seeing support players as Little more than shit on the bottom of thier shoe, something to be degraded and discarded.
Its amazing how everyone states how reliant the team is on support, yet support players are always the ones thrown under the bus and threatened with "Report for inting" because they dont have as many kills as everyone else. They forget that the support role IS NOT A KILL FOCUSED ROLE.
But will still flame and blame the support for going 0/2/15 and spam with "stfu, u got no kills"
So yeah, that courtesy went out the window, and now that they gutted the support items, I will just start taking from the minion waves instead of the support items.
Strangely enough, you can usually tell what type of adc you have based on the reaction you get from taxing waves.
If your adc is focued more on winning and mature, they will generally adapt and focus on making the best of the situation. And many times If I see this, I will begin to back off the minions and let them take the lions share.
OR
You get the spam pinging, cursing little toddler who sees 1 less minion as "gg my trolling support" and then they proceed to throw a tantrum, cuss and flame, beg for reports, and go on about how they are going to "intentionally feed, its all supports fault"
These players I have no interest in extending any courtesy to. And usually they are the type who are not interested in winning, but see the bot lane as well as the support player as little more than their personal property.
So yeah, I have, am, and will continue to take farm directly from the minion waves. I will forego the support item and get my gold directly from minions instead as I refuse to build based off the the meager "table scraps" that riot expects me to work with. And maybe if the support problem becomes a problem for ADC as well, it will them out of the idea that just because its not effecting them, doesnt mean it wont effect them.
(Kinda like the people who respond to issues or grievances with "well I never see it in any of my games, so you must just be making it up" response.)