Why do we always have to Clash with each other as a community?

I've been playing League since mid-end of season 4 and i'm really starting to get a good grasp on this game after a few thousand games. Last season i peaked gold 1, and this season im currently g2. Now, i've learned a lot throughout the seasons and the thing that is really showing right now is how hostile "indirectly" / slightly "directly" the community is towards each other.

Riot puts A LOT of emphasis on player behavior, however, expressing their hate for a champion on a forum to me is going to far. Not because people shouldn't be frustrated with a champion, but that they legitimately want that champion gutted to the point of not being played. Now, in your own selfish eyes, you the person reading this, can probably relate. However, what is unfun, toxic, and "op" to you, isn't to others. Furthermore, is fun to someone else.

You could be an Annie main, bitch about "mobility champions op" Gut X champ "too much damage and mobility no real weakness" Then the next guy comes and says "gut Annie, too many point and click abilities with too much damage"

Why has this community resorted to, "gut x champion when i dont like playing vs it" And also, why is "this champion needs a rework and doesn't have enough player to player interaction" being used soo much now. I'm seeing people asking for fucking Udyr gutting/rework now. Like holy shit, this guy hasn't been touched since season 3. And now apparently, no mobility 100% melee is broken. Yes, not op, broken into needing a rework. Why? Since when? Sure Udyr is super strong right now, but why are we targeting Udyr instead of all the other variables? Items being the first one I look at.

Don't tell me Riot doesn't pay attention to these QQ threads. They do, I'm not going to get into it with anyone about how they balance around what people cry about on the forums, but they surely do have an influence, more than people care to admit.

TLDR Can we please stop asking for champions to get nerfed/gutted because we don't want/know how to deal with a champion. Its all fun and great when you get that champion nerfed, until someone does it to you, and your main is left gutted for months or years.