Seriously... how do you lane against Darius?
Picked Malphite top... enemy picked Darius after. I thought well that's crappy, but whatever I'll just play it super safe... I'll just build hp/armor, and farm before 6, avoid his Q and E - then farm from a distance after he's 6. Even started cloth 4. Got a reasonable amount of farm, not as much as him, but whatever.
But as soon as we both hit 6 he completely dives me... I'm about 3/4 hp, passive is up, enough mana for a Q. Get dove, pulled, Q'd, Auto Ult ignite.. he flashes, barely lives and I die. First blood.
End of the lane. Can't even farm the little bit that I did before... One E and I'm dead again, can't even get in range for exp.
Our jungle, Shaco, didn't even gank any lane til 7, but even without that... Darius has been being played a lot lately. And I thought I had a handle on dealing with him (just stay back, don't die, don't feed him, whatever). But really... I can't even manage that on any champ that's not a counter pick, the Flash E's are basically a 100% death.
Maybe this is a QQ/vent thread, not asking for a nerf... just could use some tips. I'm unranked and far from good, but usually win lane and do well in the elo I go against. I avoid 85% of what he throws, but one single mistep and it's over and that seems kinda silly to me.
I'm sure this will get downvoted just because, but any thoughts?
so that Malph could spam his abilities a bit more to farm under turret? If Malph was farming well enough, he could also consider a
for a first back.

although mallet is a bit more situational and champion specific are great items to build against darius. I'm not saying armor is pointless, but health is more cost efficient and benefits you more.
but I play her top lane secondary. She does quite well against Darius because she can control the wave, CS with plants when behind, poke with plants when even, self-peel with roots and vine lashers, and turn the tables on dives.