"It's not my job to win your lane noob"
sure, it isn't. but there are some matchups you get where unless you get ganks from your jungler often and early, you will lose. not to mention i ping 500 times for help, and jungler only decides to come when im dead and he can try to get cleanup, but actually just feed my laner another kill. im not saying carry me, im saying i won't always have the perfect matchup where i can be completely 100% independent and win the lane. but if you ignore my lane when i ping 500 times, and then rage at me because i fed someone who hard counterpicked me, im gonna leave your game. i hate dealing with that.
most of the time it's not even me feeding, its just them denying me farm, gold, and experience by keeping me from farming, and then turret diving me when they're sufficiently ahead. and that takes minutes. so if you ignore a laner while they're going through that, you're a bad jungler.
not to mention all those games eventually the jungler just comes into my lane after i lose a turret, and just takes all of the farm i actually CAN get at that point saying "you don't need it anyway you suck"

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