If your team has no inkling of winning, why do people get upset when you let the enemy push?
For example, your jungle has let 3 dragons go from dying alone when they had the timer on it, the support is going 2/11 trying to engage despite being 5 levels lower than anyone else, your midlane cannot use their champion properly and your adc gets focused down from being the only threat aside from the top laner.
Its 30 minutes. Late in the night. Surrender vote fails. Yet another dragon down. Look around in the jungle and see there are no timers for buffs and two people die again while not defending an inhib tower? May as well inflate those cs scores and put up the image of you trying for whoever looks at it.
"WTF WHY DIDN'T YOU DEFEND"
Why didn't you take this game seriously 29 minutes ago?