I'm having a hard time jungling with Fiddle. I rarely get kills unless i lane gank and the enemy pushes the wave so i'm right behind him.
As a jungler, you have to be creative about how you gank because simply waiting for the enemy to overextend before you come to gank the lane isn't always going to happen. Buy a pink ward and scanner lens so you clear out enemy wards. If they have the river area heavily warded, try ganking through lane . To do this, wait for the minions to push out and then walk into the bushes when you're outside of the enemy's vision then sit in that bush until the enemy pushes up and is in the range of your abilities. You can also flank the enemy from behind and force them into a "clamp" at their own turret (once you have hourglass, you can tower dive easily. Otherwise, be very careful about how much turret aggro you take). Don't always look to gank through the same path because that makes your ganks more predictable and the enemy will ward that area more often. Change it up.
I am also having trouble with my ult in teamfights. I always try to wait for the fight to be engaged then I start channeling it from a place where the >ennemy team can't see me, but when i finally get into the fight, most of the people on my team are either low or dead.
Fiddle's ult is purely AoE magic damage so it does alot more dmg with more enemies. You should use your ult ideally when you're able to catch alot of enemies in it. Don't always wait for your teammates to engage. You can intitiate first with your ult. Just make sure your allies are nearby to follow-up before you do. Also, you want to be able to anticipate when your allies engage because you usually want to ult right before that happens.
I know Fiddlesticks is not good with RG but he's my favorite jungler and i just take zhonya's straight after my jg item instead of getitng runeglaive.
That is completely fine. You really don't need to complete it because its somewhat of a waste. Fiddle scales better off of rushing that hourglass and building more useful items. His jungle clear is already really good so he only needs stalkers/Skirmishers.
Also, if you could recommend me some champions to learn the jungle in general (since i think it's my worst role), it would be great! :)
If you're just trying to learn some easy junglers, I'd recommend

(Sorry about my bad english, i'm french canadian)
Your english is fine. I got your main points. Hope my tips helped.