How to be alone without being lonely?

Niyumi·10/10/2016, 12:46:14 AM·1 votes·583 views

Long story short, I grew up without friends, never so much as hugged a girl or been on a date, and my family tells me every day how much they hate me and wish I'd move out. Even on the internet, I'm largely avoided or hated for whatever reason.

So, obviously, I'm not going to stop being alone any time soon, but how can I be alone without feeling lonely and left out?

10 Comments

Marshbouy10/10/2016, 12:47:02 AM1 votes

I have no idea. This is a league of legends forum though, so this post is entirely off topic.

Corporal B10/10/2016, 12:51:42 AM1 votes

Find a passion and pursue it.

Flaherty10/10/2016, 12:53:39 AM1 votes

I'm sorry that your situation is that way, but remember that there are people out there for everyone whether it be people you can be friends with or in a relationship. Just try to focus on improving yourself in anyway that you can. Eat well, exercise, educate yourself in different things, etc. Try putting yourself out there, talk to people, eventually you will find people you can befriend. If you're in school join clubs and shit. You can distract yourself with things to not feel so lonely when you are alone, but finding people to not be alone with helps so much more.

oSEXYPLATYPUSo10/10/2016, 12:54:15 AM1 votes

thats a hard life... i dont know what to say... maybe you need to change of environment... maybe do something where you can meet friends and have a life outside of here

best of luck

razorrules10/10/2016, 1:27:33 AM1 votes

Just do what I do, take drugs. Works well, well untill you are out of money and then living on the streets begging for money. oh well

Sylvant10/10/2016, 12:58:09 PM1 votes

Hey Sciela, i doubt this is the right place to ask those questions. You might find empathy, but not the answers. You should look up reddit instead where discussion on that subject is likely to take place, in an appropriate environment and still the answer you find there might be kinda too general and narrow, because there really are no ultimate "solutions", but merely pointers and starting points. The most important is how ready you are to take radical steps and turn your life in a better direciton