"Team lost but I was stronger than my lane opponent"

Kikirino·Mar 27, 2015·1 votes·390 views

"He was kicking my ass but I was stronger late game"

That doesn't matter. It doesn't fucking matter. You lost lane and you lost game. Being 'stronger' than one of the opponents late game doesn't mean you did well. The day you learn to accept that you suck is the day you will start to get better. You never learn because you find one thing that you 'did well' and you ignore all the shit you did wrong and then screw up the exact same way in every match to follow. "My team lost but I got my tower so I did my job right" No. Seriously, fucking stop.

Learn from your mistakes instead of riding on one thing you succeeded to do.

5 Comments

ArtishyMar 27, 20152 votes

You need to chill. The day you learn to chill and understand that instead of blaming other people for losing the game, or having a scapegoat, and that you'll eventually have the mentality that soloqueue revolves around you carrying your team, AND that if you lose it is because you were not able to carry hard enough (This is in my world), is the day you'll start carrying your team.

You get many more wins with this mindset.

KikirinoMar 27, 20151 votes

I am not blaming anyone for a loss. There is someone I have played with for years and they keep thinking they are pro and their team is the reason they lose. I refuse to play anything but bots with them because of this mentality. They never learn. They argue with pros and think boots are situational. They fixate on one success and ignore the 20 deaths they fed.

I am sick of telling them that they lose because they don't learn from their mistakes. I am tired of hearing how it is his team's fault every time he gets out of a match.

I agree with your statement about that mindset. I just hit my limit with how much of this person's shit I can handle after two years.

ArtishyMar 27, 20151 votes

You mute them, or tell them straight up, THEN mute them. Ignore them. It's not hard to do, it's just humane to continue arguing or wanting to fight/be angry at another. You MUST combat this humane way that we are, and click that ignore button. It feels so much better after.