"Why don't you play as much as you used to?"

I only play when I am about to be Rank Decayed. My friends asked why. Let's use my last game as an example as to why playing more than one match of ranked every 30 days is fucking stupid.

Top lane doesn't leash for me because he wants early lane advantage. Okay, fine I don't complain. My red gets stolen so I really can't gank at all. Top dies and says "dont gank top in forever" which I read as "I am behind so don't bother ganking top" so I try to farm to 6 because I am Malphite and his level 6 is when he really gets his ganks going. Top dies again and says "gg cant play with trash jungler" and my team makes the typical "are you serious?" comments and he says "last time, gank top or afk" so I respond "afk then" and he does. That is reason enough to not enjoy this game. On top of that the enemy team talks shit on us all game. This was a 32 minute 4v5. Top afked at level 7. My team ends with the scores 8/2/11 me, 3/2/16 support, 13/4/10 mid and 2/2/3 adc. Enemy feels the need to inform us that we are trash and we should surrender and shit in a 4v5. That is just icing on the cake. But remember, in this situation you cannot be mean to the other team in chat because that will likely get you banned. Instigating is fine. Retaliating is not.

That's fine though. I will just keep playing once every 30 days until I am just too sick of how this is handled to log on even that often.