Does the player's gender matter to anyone?

Kikirino··101 votes·7,620 views

I played a game recently in which an which an Annie was playing really well and I made the comment "She is kicking our asses" and I was immediately caught off guard by a teammate's response. "How do you know she is a girl?" This lead to a sort of debate that confused me and the player asking in /all if the player was a girl. I never once considered the gender of the other players. I never cared and still don't. Male or female never concerned me. I only see the gender or the Champion. If someone is playing Gragas he is playing well. Syndra? She is who I am facing.

After this I saw a similar incident happened. Janna kept Qing and ulting Pantheon every time he tried to stun someone and the adc said "She just won't let you touch me" and the Janna got super angry and made it very clear that he was not a girl.

Does this actually bother people? Do people actually get offended when they are referred to by their champions gender or was I an idiot and got trolled?

184 Comments

DrCyanide130 votes

I always refer to the gender of the player as the gender of their champion, unless I know them in person.

Sincarnation42 votes

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I always refer to the gender of the player as the gender of their champion, unless I know them in person.

Ditto

DMouseslayer36 votes

If you play a female champion, I refer to you as she. If we que up and you're in my next game, playing a male champion, I'm calling you He. If you play Rek'Sai, I'm calling you He because i keep forgetting.

That's how it works >_<

Too many people are obsessed with their genitalia :/

EndlessSorcerer21 votes

Easiest way to do it. Even in chat, I'll usually just say the champion's name instead of the summoner name when referring to someone.

SecretAgentHulk19 votes

It's super weird to hear Phreak calling Piglet's Vayne 'he'.

sNanaya8 votes

It's understandable since Phreak knew the player controlling the vayne. Unlike in our own game where we can only know the character in front of you

Kitty Darkstar4 votes

Even when I know the person, I tend to say the pronoun relevant to the champion's gender.

Personally, I don't mind. I've claimed to be both genders online, so it's no issue for me to be mistaken for the other one.

freeformline9 votes

This is how I tend to operate, due to the lack of decent gender neutral singular pronouns in English, and it's how most people I know operate as well. As a support main who mostly plays Soraka, Sona, and Leona, I've had people play with me for months and suddenly be surprised when they find out that I am male. I've even had people explicitly ask me if I was female because they only ever saw me play female champs. Good times for all!

Ariel the Cruel6 votes

At least you're name doesn't add to the confusion. XD


I don't care about gender 99% of the time. Some people just get weird about it though. I get more annoyed when people start referring to me as a certain Disney character.

Hyrum Graff11 votes

I herd you liek playin nami?

Derké11 votes

It's sorta RP, when you like call the player by the champion they are playing.

Mast3rMahan6 votes

Legit, I always just act like the person is the gender of their champion. Like, if I am having fun in a game, I'll be half flirty with champions who are opposite gender of my champ because why not and most will actively joke back. It's all fun and games, no reason to get all up tight about the gender of the other champ.

amonkeybutt26 votes

No, it doesn't matter to me on bit. That would be silly.

Kikirino43 votes

You are a monkey butt. I would expect you to be silly.

amonkeybutt31 votes

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You are a monkey butt. I would expect you to be silly.

Shit, good point.

Daen18 votes

Shit, good point.

Shit

AMonkeyButt

I see what you did there.

MrBuffington18 votes

I played a game recently in which an which an Annie was playing really well and I made the comment "She is kicking our asses"

"Beaten by a little girl" Annie

Kikirino9 votes

Yeah... I probably smell like burning.

insaiyanbacca16 votes

unless i personally know the person on the other team i always refer to champion gender and mostly champion names

PrincessLaLa16 votes

There are so many immature 12 yr olds that play these days, and start a fight whenever they want. Maybe not a fight but at least an argument. I am a girl that plays league, and I have been playing for about 4 years now, and No, I do not get offended when I am referred to as a 'boy' when playing a male champion. On the other hand, i DO get offended in Champion Select when my team makes me play support ONLY BECAUSE my league name makes it obvious that I am a girl. I'm serious, more times then not, I am told I cannot play ADC (my strongest role) only because I'm a female and I need to support... I do not start a fight about it, but it DOES get under my skin.

blueberrypancake16 votes

Having people do that is so unbelievably sexist. I hope you don't have to deal with it often.

freeformline4 votes

I see plenty of thoughtless and toxic behavior in this game, but I don't think I've ever heard something that profoundly stupid. I would hope they would want someone to support because they are good at the role, but I guess everyone has some failure of logic or prioritization. I guess that's why reporting and muting exist.

cshakes9 votes

Once, I and three friends of mine were queuing for a normal. One of my friends let slip that I and another friend were female, upon which the fifth player (a random) concentrated mostly on flirting with us as opposed to actually playing, as well as saying "see, girls can't play" every time I or my friend didn't perform at 110%. That's why women don't tell their gender online. Sure, most people might be OK, but there's always the one crazy asshole flamer.

Lythalia9 votes

It's strange to have someone get that upset over it, I try to use Champion names instead because of this but then every once in awhile you get the Summoner that gets upset you won't type their Summoner Name. There's literally nothing you can do in-game, online, or in real life that won't offend someone somewhere down the line. But, for now I refer to people as their champion's gender (unless corrected.) I am female, and if someone uses "he" too much when referring to me I will correct them but it's not something to get upset over.

I guess, in an online community like LoL there isn't much you do have control over when things start going sideways so some people might grasp at what they can control?

Sinlaire3 votes

I had a bug for like 3 months where I couldnt see summoner names over their characters when i was using my large monitor and not my laptop. The names were pretty much just a small blocky blurred line. i would have been soo screwed if i were to have constantly encountered people who were insulted by me being able to only identify them by their champ name.

it was so bad really that sometimes someone would say something in chat and i wouldnt even know which champion was speaking until i opened tab to double check or found the champ name next to their summoner name.

Auryiel7 votes

Wtf people really get mad over being refered to as a she when they're playing female champions?

Kobila200012 votes

Because being female is an insult. Good to see sexism is dead.

Anonymousaur7 votes

You're playing Jayce? I will refer to you as a man because I'm talking about Jayce and not YOU. You're playing Sona? I will refer to you as a woman because I'm talking about Sona and again, not YOU. Oh you're playing Ezreal? I will refer to you as THEY/IT/THAT because "I have no clue what Ezreal is" (jk) and maybe I am indeed talking about you at the same time.

Last time I played Ashe in an aram I was referred to as Male and when I played Varus I was referred to as Female by one of my teammates. Whatever bruh...I might as well be a potato!

But anyway, I have no problem being called the gender of the champ I am currently playing. Some people need to open up in order understand why they were called a girl while playing a female champ and a guy while playing a male one.

A Miss Fortune6 votes

Referring to someone by their champion name is easier, faster, and also everyone can understand who you're speaking to without searching for Summoner Names in the leaderboard and also makes it so gender confusion doesn't happen as anyone can be male or female playing the game, but it would just be rude to ask their gender when you don't know the person at all.

In terms of looking at male or female players differently, there are a lot of women on Twitch who abuse themselves for viewers. But other than that, my sister and another female friend of mine all play League of Legends with me and my male friends; and I don't really see a difference between genders and video games.

Truly Prideful5 votes

People just want to get upset over anything they can anymore. I would just ignore it, you didn't do anything wrong. I'm a guy, but if I'm playing Janna or something and you call me a she, I honestly don't care and wouldn't correct you. I know you mean the character, no reason to blow up something so silly.

Lady Luck5 votes

Ahahaha I love how one example is a male correcting somebody for calling him "she" in game. Why? Because whenever you see a girl correct somebody in this manner people often say it's trying to get attention for being a girl. When I was first playing games online I'd correct people who called me a "he" because I didn't think it was a big deal to want to be referred to by the proper gender pronoun. But along the lines of "it's not a big deal" I never got offended by being referred to as a male. (Eventually I stopped correcting people unless I played with them repeatedly.)

Anyhow, in game, I almost always go by the champion's gender. Heck, I'll be on skype with somebody I know IRL and he'll be playing a female champion... And I'll refer to him as her in the skype call on occasion. (Or vice versa) This mindset is emphasized by the fact that rarely to people refer to each other in game by account name - it's always by champion. I refer to you as Janna, not as Supercoolguy53.

IceKingChernobog4 votes

i can careless about your gender when i play video games, as long as you're a decent player i'll respect that

Kobila20004 votes

I'm sure the people who get insulted at being called by the wrong pronouns are young boys who consider being female an insult. You know, because females are such pathetic, weak, incompetent creatures and heaven forbid anyone dare imply you might be one of those inferior creatures.

If you're female you're most likely used to getting called "he" since people automatically assume everything is male by default and female is just some weird deviation. It's also why certain people keep insisting that Rek'Sai is a he and claiming they don't care about her gender despite literally assigning the opposite gender to her instead of calling her an it. The internet is filled with lonely socially maladjusted guys, so if you're a girl, you learn pretty quickly that mentioning you're female is basically opening doors to creepy comments, sexist insults and/or a lot belittling. So most of the time it's better to avoid the topic or just downright lie. Heck, if I refer to my sister, I'll just use "he" so she can avoid all this crap.

But as for getting called by the wrong pronouns? Most people don't care. How in the world are you supposed to know someone's gender anyway? Hell, I don't care about your gender, I work with what I've got and what I've got is that you're Irelia so I'm going to be calling you "she". I've only once seen someone get insulted at being called the wrong gender, it was a raging Karma and my sister said "girl, calm down" and got the hilariously dumb "ur mom is a girl". I think even the guy realized how stupid that retort was, since he kept pretty quiet from then on.

Champion Skin1 votes

And then there is all MMO's and social games where some guys pretend to be girls because of possibility of being treated better and getting free stuff

Kobila20004 votes

My sister actually had a friend she played an MMO with who milked every item she could out of horny idiots and would then have the audacity to brag to her about how she has much better stuff than her. Yeah, except my sister worked for them and you sent a few flirty chats to some horny suckers. Once they started playing LoL, the "friend" lost interest very fast when she noticed you can't get people to buy you skill. The rest of us have enough dignity to not want to be treated like incompetent children or act as dogs for some random internet chick.

AvocadoPapi4 votes

some people are just overly sensitive in my opinion lol.

alaskaneagle4 votes

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I believe that gender is not really a factor in a video game since there is no reason to use gender. I don't know if I'm just a little behind the technology but I don't have a button attached to my penis that I can use to flash giving me an advantage for having a penis.

Conversely I do not know of any augmented breast controls that women can attached their summoner spells to that make having breast an advantage in game either.

It is pointless to care about gender over the internet and frankly peoples obsession with gender and sex only proves we are still not far from being primates. Especially in this context.

Yasu0 is dog4 votes

I'm an equal opportunity muter.

TeemoJenkins3 votes

Recently in bronze q had an ADC that we did very well in a game, they added me and wanted to duo. Next game they said "We gonna smoke em Arliden"? To which I replied "It's prison beach rape time!" - They then replied "I'm a girl".... and then proceeded to flame me all game. I honestly was taken back by her attitude, we still won, because I'm a badass support... but the fact that she was severely insulted by a prison beach rape joke to the point of almost throwing the game was crazy.

Needless to say I blocked and deleted and wont' play with her again. I don't give a wank about your gender, play the game, almost every time I've seen gender come up is when females bring it up in the game... which is pointless. Just play.

Shinjusuke38 votes

Maybe she got upset because rape jokes aren't funny, and it has nothing to do with her being a girl and rather has to do with her being a reasonable human being that doesn't make jokes about horrendous violent acts that can destroy someone's life.

But hey. More likely she's "just one of those crazy girls".

AbiwonKenabi5 votes

Exactly this. I know plenty of guys who are offended by jokes like these. Its not just a "crazy girl" thing.

Gender in this game doesn't matter, but being an asshole IS something that matters. As in, be nice people. Its not hard.

Yulen Xoshxius3 votes

I wonder if they were watching too much Cromartie High School and just wanted a reason to get into some dramatic debate over little things.

Kikirino13 votes

I have no idea what that is.

AbyssionKnight3 votes

Unless I know the people, I always talk about the other people in the game as the gender of their characters. I personally don't see an issue with that, since the physical representation i'm seeing of that person is female. If they make an issue of it then of course i'll stop, but i've found most people don't care / do the same thing.

XinZhao2WinNhao3 votes

I dont care about gender. you can call me a he or she and i dont care, i wont even correct you because honest i dont care enough to

Xenohaz3 votes

Yeah, I just refer to people by the gender of the champion they are playing at that moment. If people do the same to me, I don't really care.

Garens Harem3 votes

fuck no, gender doesn't matter lol

lDontLiftIcarry1 votes

90%+ of the community is a boy or a man. So...

Xaihady4 votes

I HIGHLY doubt that many. I think you'd be surprised how many ladies play Leauge.

Kobila20004 votes

Actually there were some stats that said 90% of players are male, but those were from many years ago so who knows how well they're holding up now. People forget though that with those stats it means that you basically have one girl in every match.

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