@OP,
What the fuck, are you really gonna be that unreasonable?
How many times do I have to say that the problem is not adding a gay couple, or anything to do with gays being gay. I mean fuck me, I support gay right because I firmly believe that no one should be prosecuted and treated unequally just because your dick doesn't go into a vagina and vice versa; I know for a fact homosexuality is not something that's "man-made" or some kind of sickness unlike certain demographic of people; I have 0 problems with gay characters and is an anime enthusiast, the media that has no qualms of starring LGBT characters and has an abundance of them; I even myself have recently reached the conclusion that I may have some bi-tendencies and have accepted it without a single problem. I don't believe gay people are troubles, I have 0 issues with gay people being who they are.
I do however, have issues with changing a character at their VERY CORE without any real reason to warrant the change such as how IoW being deleted has invalidated the core of Fiddlestick or something along that line. Galio lore change changed his character, but he is still the "Sentinel's Sorrow", in fact his new lore is actually more tragic than his previous one; WW is still a man with "the rage of the beast now complements his predatory spirit", a catchphrase quote describing the character from the very first lore of him (he has had 2 lore changes; though I can't find and remember his old alias/title to comment on) You get the idea.
Varus is changed way too much from his old self, so much so it is literally replacing the old character with a new one. That really is going too far, and your rather underdeveloped reasoning skills are not going to change that.
EDIT: This is similar to the good o' Trundle lore change, which had sit with the community just about how well this current deal is. If you don't know or remember, Trundle being made a rather unwitted dictator, from his older much wittier, and caring (to an extent before turning sour) self, also sparked some controversy back then. This one is just that. Not popular, for good reasons.