Yeah people will always complain about not getting early help as long as they find themselves losing for literally any reason x)
But its a team game, they as laners have to realize what their jungler can and cannot do, if they fail to respect this and go causing situations their jungler cant help to salvage then the fault is theirs more than anyone else's.
But of course it does suck when enemy shaco, lee or kha6 just keep rushing in from lvl 3 and messing with the lane, i´ve been on the receiving end of that and its really not fun and i can understand the frustations.
But i also think that if they spamgank then its a sign of the laner doing something wrong too, especially if the spamganks are successful.
League is a great deal about "respect" and knowing your own abilities, respect for what enemy players might do and knowing what you yourself can do.
If you dont respect the fact that enemy shaco with smite/ignite might drop a powerful gank at 3 then its on oneself, no one else.
If one does not mind the fact that enemy lane just hit 6 while you are 5? Also on oneself.
Lot of stuff in league goes like that.
Feels weird writing about respect when so many are busy flaming and complaining though :p