High-Elo Strategies Not Working in Low-Elo
So I just had a game where I was the ADC and there was a midgame teamfight breaking out near red side's blue buff. I had to defend blue side's inner turret, so I pinged danger and typed in chat, "Don't fight, I'm not there". They ended up fighting and it was a 0 for 4 trade, which resulted in us surrendering. I know for a fact that if I didn't defend bot, we would've lost the turret. The fight wasn't over an objective, so the correct decision was to not fight and push out lanes. That didn't happen, and so we lost. Does this mean that the right thing to do in a high-elo game isn't necessarily the right thing to do in a low-elo game? I've noticed this before with pushing out waves as a jungler; almost all high-elo games that I watch involve the jungler and laner pushing the wave under turret after a successful gank. When I try to do this, I get yelled at for taxing.
Basically, how do I know when to modify my idea of what the proper thing to do is so I can win more of my low-elo games?