The constant "you have already lost this game under 10 mins" is not fun to deal with at all

I am getting quite sick of games that snowball so fast you can't do a single thing about it, everything dies too fucking fast and teams that are only a kill or 2 over the others feel like they have had 10 kills over them, this meta and the liklihood that 90% of your losses and wins will be decided within 8 mins, I am actually becoming toxic from this meta because it's no goddamn fun to do something as unforgivable as die once and have the slimmest chance of fighting back after

tone the goddamn speedball snowball bullshittery down please