Maybe it's because I play top and jungle equally....
But it's really not hard to avoid being ganked top. I have a bit more sympathy for mid because of its location and number of ways in, but even then the lane is a lot shorter
First,
how are you still getting caught by the level 3 gank? How do you "get ganked at 3 minutes every game" and not learn to plop your ward down at 2:45? Why don't you just let them push the wave or keep it in the middle? The people who keep getting caught by this are the ones that play stupidly aggressive 24/7 and complain about 'MUH 1V1' in a 5v5 team game. League is not a 1v1 game. Your 1v1 never existed.
Second,
learn to manage a wave. It's so easy to set up a freeze when people brainlessly push. And if you are pushing, don't be dumb about it. You can see exactly where your minion wave is on your minimap. The enemy minion wave is in the exact same spot on their side. Don't spam all your abilities to clear a wave in the middle of the lane when you know their next wave is about to reach their tower because guess what? Your wave is going to meet that next wave right in front of their tower and leave you overextended to clear it. Instead, wait for their next wave to meet yours in the middle, then clear it fast so it resets under their tower. Now you are free to back for free without having to blow TP. Or just maybe go do something productive. Unless you die, when you get back to lane you'll have the wave hard shoving to you and miss only like 2 CS.
Third,
Stop wasting your time. I see this shit all the time. The enemy Riven pushes me under tower then just stands there watching me farm under tower hoping to maybe get an auto W in. Go do something productive. How do you expect to not get ganked when you stand there overextended all the time? Shove the wave under tower then roam mid or kill scuttle or grab the honey fruit or pop the enemy blast cone or get a deep ward down. Listen, some champs are great at harassing under tower. At the same time, fuck being harassed under my own damn tower for free. There should be a great risk for doing it.
Fourth,
stop wasting your damn wards. This is yet another thing that happens ALL THE TIME. Why are you dropping your pink while getting pushed in knowing damn well that your laner will be able to clear it for free in 15 seconds? Another scenario: my jungler is literally in the process of ganking bot lane. My lane opponent then drops a trinket ward into the river bush. Why??? My whole team is clearly visible on the map. Why are you straight up wasting your ward? Maybe pay attention to your map? Which brings me to the next point
Fifth
Use some damn map awareness. "Mid didn't ping MIA!" ...... Seriously? Maybe take a fraction of a second to look at your map every ten or fifteen seconds? The further you are extended in your lane, the more frequently you should be scanning your map. If just saw the enemy jungler being spotted somewhere, you know he can't be in your lane immediately. The only exception I make for this is you really should tell your team when your lane opponent hits 6 if they have a semi or global ult (Shen, TF, Karthus, Galio, etc)
Sixth,
Apply your game knowledge. League is NOT a game of perfect play. League is a game of CALCULATED risks. Seriously people. You can somewhat track junglers without even seeing them. Pay attention to what direction they left mid. Use some common sense.
Think:
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"well they just showed bot so it would take them at least a minute to get up here, but the likelihood of them running here without clearing a camp or two is practically zero so I have a bit longer".
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"their buff is respawning bot side so there is a lower chance of them being up here".
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"well I can win this trade or kill them if nobody else shows up.... what are the chances of someone else being here?"
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"this guy has being playing super scared, but is suddenly running at me. Someone else is here"
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"Where is my jungler and does he have enough HP to help with a countergank? Will I even love long enough to get the countergank?"
Just a few examples of many. Use your brains people. Top lane is not a bubble
Conclusion:
You have to stop playing like top lane is or ever was supposed to be "the 1v1 island". Spoiler: it's not. There is no way to never get ganked, but you can minimize it severely. Like I said, league is a game of calculated risk. There is still risk involved. Think of Poker players. There is no way they know everyone's cards, but they use tells and knowledge to analyze the risk. Sometimes they have a 90% chance to win a hand but still lose. Though the game is technically random, the best players still win more than your average guy. Listen, I'm not the best player obviously. Sometimes I just say fuck it and roll the dice or just straight up miss something. Sometimes the best players do too. The difference is that I understand I'm rolling the dice and don't get butthurt about it. If you want to play stupidly aggressive 24/7, by all means go right ahead. Sometimes you won't get punished for it. Don't get pissy when you get called on your bluff though.
couldn't because she will always try to build AD and needs to snowball early, which isn't a viable strategy especially once people become competent in terms of playing the game.
A calculated risk is no risk at all.