Copy pasta'd from a previous thread i replied this to.
Ok, what I'm hearing is you dont like ranged poke as a melee laner in laning phase. Buy armor or MR. If you are a melee champion you are either a tank or an assassin. If you are an assassin you shouldnt be laning against an AD ranged, but I guess you could buy a cloth armor or a doran's shield and reduce the AD damage. If you are an assassin and laning against a mage buy hexdrinker -> build first item -> finish maw. If you are a tank against an AD ranged buy an armor item: frozen heart, iceborne gauntlet and deadman's plate all all good options for first items. If you are a tank against a mage, MR is key, you can also harrass them whilest their spells are down. Spirit Visage, Banshee's Veil and even the hexdrinker -> first item -> maw build are all good options.