"why didn't you call mia"

apparently i need to ping mia everytime they back to base or die because someone won't ward or use their map. example

: a ally has been slain () : why didn't you call mia

mind you that this all happened because amumu caught vi at low health with at the river dragon and she q over the wall into their jungle

: because i killed him and he was walking back to lane, its your fault for getting caught on their side of the map : you still should of called mia : why should i have to ping everytime my laner gone, especially for the jungler, use your map

don't get me wrong, if i actively see someone leaving my lane to go top/bot or see jungler walk over a ward i'm going to ping but that's about it. so we ended up bickering over it because she couldn't accept that she just got caught and that it was her own mistake and ended up being passive aggressive about any mistakes the team made, you know the sarcastic "gj" or "ugh stop focusing the tanks"(she was 2/11 by the end of it while i was 4/3)

had the shoe been flipped im sure as hell that vi wouldn't of ping every time her laner wasn't in sight, i mean who does that? do you ping everytime your laner backs or dies or does anything out of your sight? i mean i know it doesn't really matter in the end, considering it was just norms but that was just passive aggressive non-sense that is almost in virtually most my games, after all its always someone else fault.