"Just focus on what you can do better"
You know what? I get it, I'll be the first to admit that I'm not the best player. Hell, I'm probably very average. But I can't seem to get my head around this "focus on what you can do better" argument. Like holy shit, I'm doing the best I can every game. I'm literally trying. Watching my map. Trying to keep lanes ahead. But there's always something out of the ordinary that happens, something I'm not prepared for. Or some lane going 0/7 before I can have any impact. Why am I supposed to pretend like all of these things have absolutely no effect on whether or not I lose, then telling myself that only me improving will make things better? Maybe I am very frustrated, but idk how else to feel. When people tell me to just focus on myself, I honestly feel like my plea for find methods of improving my W/L ratio are just being dismissed.