Forced autofill, and why it is making ADC feel unplayable at times

I understand the concept behind autofill and why it sounds good in theory but it has made playing as an ADC main almost unbearable at times. I feel like I get trolled by my support at least 6-7 games out of 10, to the point where my late game gets severely gimped, and I end up having to farm CS for the next 20 minutes just to try and make up for it.

So basically I've noticed autofill supports tend to do the following:

1. Play far too aggressively(as if they are the adc) and make careless moves which either feeds the enemy ADC or forces me to try and save them which also feeds the enemy ADC.
2. Steal most of the CS while not poking or peeling or doing anything else support related
3. Blatantly steal kills while not poking or peeling or doing anything else support related
4. Abandoning lane and wandering around trying to counter the enemy jungler or mid and feeding their team easy kills
5. In rare cases, doing 1-4 all in the same game.

I get that support is a role that many do not want to play, but I would gladly wait longer so I can get a support that actually wants to play support. I am not trying to force anyone into meta, and I am okay with people even playing champs like jhin and varus as support as long as they actually try and win the lane.

Sometimes it's like I'd rather even 1v2 the lane so I can level up faster and be viable, but when you are already behind not only your own lane due to a bad support, but also behind top and mid it is almost impossible to come back into the game. My life is easier playing ADC marksmen like draven or ezreal mid than it even is as ADC with a troll support.