if you're AD, try rushing items like
the effective MR and the hp from cleaver while still granting Decent ad to keep up with her is nice, while giving good chunk of cdr and keeps you on pace with her RoA buildpath if she chooses to go that route, making you just as tanky as her.
If you're ap and melee, i'd recommend the same way except it should look more something like this depending on the champ
etc
As for your team, she's a reliable burst mage with the problem of range which the two afformentioned in your post help her fix, if your team doesn't wanna build any form of hp or magic resist, if you're a tank toplaner/jungler, try getting something like
and help mitigate some of her damage
edit: feel free to correct me on something if i'm wrong.