I agree especially if its on my top lane.
Granted I do appreciate my jungler/mid laner/ support caring for me, sometimes getting a gank is good but if i can't bully or can't trade but can cs and avoid the enemy no problem then I have to be honest that I don't always appreciate getting ganks.
Keep seeing my jungler or my healthy bot lane not seizing the dragon which i'd rather have than just a measly kill or assist.
I'd rather have my whole team get global gold and a stat buff rather than risk me losing tons of health or death for just a kill and lose tons of cs coming my way.
In mid/late game teamfights I find it very easy to destroy my fed top lane opponent due to coordination.
I keep trying to tell so many junglers even in lobbies "Don't gank top, im sorry but im not worth your time. Can you please focus on dragon for team gold and team buffs." then in some of those games I have a hard time trading on top but im ok with farming and I see my jungler ganking top, I ping them away indicating a "no" when i have tons of minions coming my way then they get angry because I didn't follow.
Alot of junglers need to learn that their lane allies struggling isn't their problem and that sometimes its best to leave the loser to try and catch up and go for the more better rewards like the winning lane or robbing the noob enemy jungler or taking dragon that is unguarded and unwarded.