I don't think you read what I said. A large majority of players do not enjoy playing against X champion. Because of this, a large majority of players ban X champion.
My point: These champions are not "toxic" because other people do not know how to play against them or do not like playing against aggressive early game champions.
Define "toxic". I'm pretty sure my definition is pretty close to what most players accept it as. You are probably confusing it in this sense. Here's how I use the word:
Playing Hecarim against Darius top lane:
"Ugh, this match-up is so incredibly toxic" (Note, I did not say the champion was toxic. I said the match-up was toxic, because there's pretty much nothing that you can do to prevent yourself from getting stomped)
Playing against Xayah with any cc support bot lane:
"This champion is so incredibly toxic"
The champion is toxic because the same thing is going to happen no matter what match-up there is bot lane. Similar thing with Camille when she first came out.