May I ask at what gym you are going? Those mental gymnastics are quite something.
Since you went up the walls for explanations on why I'm bad and should not blame my team (hint: I'm blaming the jungler only), I'll try to use logic to explain for you.
When banking as a jungler, there's 3 main things to consider:
Do you have the damage to kill the enemy?
Do you have the CC to help guarantee the kill?
Do you have the mobility to reach the enemy?
Now let's assume I'm J4 in that match:
- Top is Teemo vs Akali. Teemo and J4 have the damage and engage but lack the CC. Unless Akali is overextended or low, she's undiveable due to her E and W.
- Bot is Lux Cait vs Morde Jinx. There's enough damage and CC but unless they are overextended it's not easy to get in range for the engage, and due to the pulls and slows from Morde (has GA) and the slows and root from Jinx, they are stupidly hard to dive, and if Jinx gets excited, it could turn around into a triple kill.
- Mid is Vel vs Qiyana, and on this one there's everything, lots of damage, lots of CC and good engage due to how the lane is set. Qiyana has just 1 form of CC early, a root from River Q, but if under tower it's hard to get it. Little to no defensive mobility of her own due to E being enemy target only and W needs a wall, Bush or river to dash to and it's very short as well.
Basically, camping mid is the best option as it's easiest to gank and dive. J4 is stupidly tanky early so unless CC'd under tower, he can safely dive.
Now let's look from Hecarim's angle:
- Teemo vs Akali. Just CC from the engage as main CC, similar to the J4 case, but Akali has her E to chase, so it's easy to kill the Teemo.
- Bot lane is full of CC and damage and due to Hecarim's engage style, ganks are easy and so are dives.
- Qiyana vs Vel, similar to bot lane, a lot of CC and damage.
So on Hecarim's team, any lane is gankable.
Now, mid is hard camped as it's the only lane J4 can easily gank. There are two ways to alleviate pressure: gank other lanes or counter gank. J4 is 3-0-1, Vel is 1-2-1, Qiyana is 2-2-0 and Hecarim is 0-2-0, so counterganking isn't an option as a 2v2 is not winnable, thus the best option to get your team ahead and alleviate pressure from mid is to gank one of the side lanes as those were in a neutral spot.
That's the correct play, I even told Hecarim to gank a sidelane. What does he do? AfK farm, feeding 2 more kills to J4 and ending with less farm than J4. Lux started coming mid, then they roamed and put the lead from mid into the other lanes.
Am I allowed to blame Hecarim? of course, he refused to gank any lane, not just mine.
My point wasn't "gee, I getz camped and team no help, reprot all, noobs", I don't need anyone to win me my lane, I can do it myself, and for when I can't I try to figure where I screwed up and do better next time. My point was that in lower elos, no matter the reason, a lot of players will refuse to help the whole team, throw because they are Rambo and know best, etc. Had two games in the same day where I already won my lane despite jungle interference, ask my jungler to cover mid for me for a bit so I can recall and get some items and heal up and stop the other mid from taking a plate, I either get no reply or, to quote said Vi "I don't care, not my job to win your lane", like, I'm sorry? After 3 Rek'sai ganks, Lux is 1-4 and 20 cs behind in farm, I won that lane, don't need you to win it. Regardless, I back, get back to lane, Vi comes and steals farm then goes away.
Players will refuse to help, abandon frames completely and farm the opposite side of the jungle, etc. That's my point. You can't balance something with team work in mind when there is little to no team work.