This happens kind of a lot and i want a ":higher up" to give some insight.

So people are often toxic to me as I state unpopular opinions or facts. Example A: Person commenting, saying extremely toxic things. So I commented and said he sounds 12, and somebody asked who would say that (in response to the toxic person) I commented that it must be an edgy teen. Both got deleted yet his comment seems to have stayed? Laughing fish deleted both comments. Like answer me how much of a JOKE it is to be all high and mighty " Haha, no free speech here" Meanwhile ignoring toxic commenters who post transphobic, homophobic, racist or anything else toxic,