Forget building against them, the absolute best way to make a tank jungle cry is to counter jungle them HARD. I have been playing tank junglers since about this time last year, and I will say, they are only as weak or strong as your opponent lets them be. One game I was playing Maokai jungle (pre-rework) and at that point he was VERY vulnerable early game, but since their Jarvan didn't counter jungle me once all game, I was able to ramp up into an absolute behemoth, which should not have happened. In another game, I was playing as the new Sion in the jungle. He like all tanks is vulnerable to invade, and this game the enemy Tryndamere jungle knew that and stole ~70% of my camps and left me helpless for most of the game.
The really strong tanks right now (like Sejuani, Sion, and Nautilus) all scale very well, very fast, so you have to invade them from the get go. have someone ward one buff, and you ward their other buff, and as soon as you see them near one buff go to the other one. Have smite ready and wait for them to get low and get the camp low too. Smite steal it and then try to kill them. If you can kill them, great! If not, then you will usually force them to back, during which time you want to kill every one of their camps except for one small monster each, so that they don't respawn. Keep tabs on their buffs and steal them whenever they are up and the tank is either low or in a different part of the map.
If you can't counter jungle like that, then your best bet is to get your lanes fed and farm up hard yourself, and try to shut down their lanes and watch for countergank opportunities. If you are an AP jungle, build a Liandry's, if you are AD, build a BotRK. If you aren't jungling and their tank gets rolling, rush your penetration item ASAP, and/or get your tenacity items.
Counterjungling is and always will be the best way to shut out a tank, but building around it can be useful in a pinch.
EDIT:
. This guy right here is also specifically designed to literally eat tanks and steal everything that makes them strong. If their tank gets fed, you as Trundle naturally get fed even more because you take the stats they build for yourself via Q and R. That and he is also an exceptional duelist and counterjungler, which are the two things that shut down tanks the hardest, since they are weak 1v1 and weak to invade.