Trying not to blame other players?

Ezcru·4/13/2015, 4:11:27 AM·1 votes·783 views

But when your Darius with the dunk skin loses to Lee Sin top (no jungler) and dies 3+ times in first 10 minutes...hard not to shut my mouth. I didn't say anything though, to anybody. Did that fix the problem? Did he stop feeding or did we win? Nope.

I know from experience if you open your mouth 1 or more teammates will go off on you with go-to words like toxic, whining or crybaby. This is in fact toxic as hell and involves the whole team so I shut my mouth now. But it feels like I'm just boiling over, struggling to contain these thoughts but not be able to release it. Makes the game a fking terrible experience, the same as if I got the whole team on tilt by opening my mouth.

Btw I'm not saying I'm in elo hell or whatever, I don't care about my rank. I just play to try to beat other people. So this is nothing to do with "get good and carry", it doesn't matter if I'm carrying if I see dumb shiet I wanna say something about it.

3 Comments

AwesomeChad4/13/2015, 4:55:19 AM1 votes

If you have a strong desire to type something negative in chat, open up a notepad and type it in there instead. It doesn't benefit your team at all to say something negative to them when they already know they messed up. Instead, move on and think of ways you can still win the game. Just because someone does poorly in laning phase doesn't reflect their performance later in the game. And like you mentioned, if you start saying negative things in chat, you will start arguments and your teammates will trust you less. They'll start typing more often in chat to vent their anger instead of trying to play the game.

Leti the Yeti4/13/2015, 8:03:54 AM1 votes

I'm the type who can find fault in the smallest things my team did or did not do luckily it makes it easier for me to think to myself..."man, what a trivial issue.. I'd look like an idiot if I told them" that sort of mind set kinda just leaked into how i would deal with other reason to blame

I'll probably share it with with the cardboard 7s somewhere long after the game tho... great campfire stories foooor example, me and some dude is beating on a turret when the enemy starts to teleport in my team mate backs off, but I intended to take the tower to cancel their teleport as such, because he backed off, the damage output from me alone wasnt high enough to take turret, but it was SOOO close, maybe if I had some help idk... mtherfker teled in and whooped my ass I mean, I could start blaming him.. yell at him for being a fking pussy and all in the middle of the game tho? oh noes man, don't do that

sometimes, my team mate feeds... no, don't get angry at him the other guy was probably playing some cancer champ, blame the enemy team instead, everyone feels better

Xemeron4/13/2015, 8:13:33 AM1 votes

Tell me about it...

My team is 5/26, the 5 kills are mine, only one tier 1 tower of the enemy down, again, my lane, Enemy is at our Nexus and our jungler goes on suiciding... finaly it breaks for me and I start to tell them to stop playing like braindead and actually think before acting...

Next comment: "You know your attitude is making us lose?"

GOD! At Moments like this I wnat to reach through my Monitor and Punch this idiots face!