Someone try and top how crazy this situation is (long)

Kovah··3 votes·683 views

Hello Boards. I really don't even know how to convey how strange this whole situation is but I'll try as best I can.

TL:DR for people who don't want little details - I duo'ed with someone for over 7 hours and we both had a great time, were nice, were joking around, and were winning games. In our last game he decided to absolutely freak out at me mid-game, and said for the last 7 hours, I had been treating him like garbage and I'm a huge asshole. His explanation on why I was such an asshole is that I asked him "what he was doing" when he sat there spamming spells at no target and purposely taking CS as my support (Yes, I'm a jerk because I was confused what he was doing). So he had apparently been duo with me for 7 hours even though it was torture because he says he is "very patient" but had enough. This player had also been drinking over the course of the 7 hours.

So as a lol player always looking for people to play with, I ended up meeting someone while playing ADC who I enjoyed talking to and playing with. I will refer to him as my duo partner. He was playing support and we had a great game, and had fun while doing it. Well we ended up adding each other and decided to duo. The day continued pretty much like that. We played for almost 7 straight hours, playing the same thing almost every game, duo bot lane. During this time we were both extremely friendly to each other, had a fun time while playing (joking/laughing), and we were winning the majority of games so it was just good all around.

He (or she) had mentioned to me towards the beginning of us playing together that they were drinking (liquor). That's fine, I don't have an issue with it, as long as it doesn't affect gameplay mechanics too much. Several times over the entire 7 hours of playing together (and when I say several times, I mean maybe 4 or 5) my duo partner would take CS from me. When this happened I typed "..." to them, and thats it. Another time I typed to them "uhhh watcha doin dude?" as they are my support and I was wondering why they were taking CS. During one of the games they were spamming spells right before we were about to enter lane, to which I simply said "what are you doing duo partner... lol". Well apparently... I did something.

I had no idea what I was in for. We ended up playing our last game together, and my duo partner, the same person I had just played over 7 hours worth of games with duo bot, having a good time, being friendly, winning games, all of the sudden snapped. He all of the sudden turned ignorant and aggressive and started harassing me in game. I thought it was a joke for a minute but he didnt stop. I said to him "uhh why did you get douchy all of the sudden?". He explained to me I have been a COMPLETE ASSHOLE to him for the entire night. Every game we played in I treated him like shit, and now he was getting back at me for all of it. I asked him what I could have possibly done and the only things I could get out of him are the things I just posted above. He also then proceeded to flame the entire team as well as the enemy team and throw out some homophobic slurs.

This person, the duo I had been having a GOOD TIME WITH for over 7 hours, snapped and started raging at me because I typed "..." to him when he took lane CS from me. I have absolutely no idea how you can spend that much time with someone then act like this. This truly BLOWS my mind on what kind of people even exist on this game. Unfortunately I don't record games and so I can't show you in game chat logs but it was absolutely insane the things he was saying about me were. The guy apparently was "faking" having a good time playing with me for over 7 hours? I feel like... this isnt even real... someone... please...

Just as a side note, for some reason one of the enemy players decided to get involved in the conversation and was siding with my duo partner (I felt like I had gone crazy that someone would do that). I did get to copy that chat from the post game lobby. It seems pretty insane to me. I just swapped out his name for "enemy player" and my duo partner obv as "duo partner"

Someone tell me please, are these people extremely over sensitive to the point where typing "what are you doing" when legitimately asking the question is you being an asshole? Or am I really the biggest jerk the planet has ever seen and I just am clueless?

Post Game Chat:

Kovah joined the room. n/a joined the room. n/a joined the room. n/ajoined the room. n/a joined the room. n/a joined the room. n/a earned an S- on Twisted Fate! n/a joined the room. n/a joined the room. n/a left the room. N/a: you really couldnt wait for them N/a: to come to tower N/a: trashbot n/a: guess who did dmg N/a: sigh* Duo Partner: you died tf Duo Partner: what do you mean Duo Partner: xD n/a left the room. n/a: one shot cait Enemy Player: cait n/a: or top Enemy Player: seems like a dick n/aleft the room. Enemy Player: lmao N/a left the room. N/a left the room. n/a: kill ad Kovah: how am I a dick n/a: but i did dmg Enemy Player: you started Duo Partner: because you're a dick every game Enemy Player: trolling Duo Partner: but the first game i'm a dick to you Duo Partner: you get mega pissy Duo Partner: i literally was doing it Duo Partner: to teach you a lesson Kovah: You still havent even explained how im such a dick Duo Partner: and you start trolling Duo Partner: ew. n/a left the room. Duo Partner: goodbye. Enemy Player: lol Enemy Player: rip Kovah: you cant even explain it Duo Partner: i dont need to, you're an asshole. Enemy Player: lol Kovah: that doesnt even make sense N/a left the room. Duo Partner: if you don't already know it, then congratulations, i just taught you a lesson. Kovah: why would you play 15 games with someone who is such an asshole? Enemy Player: you showed Enemy Player: your true Enemy Player: colors Kovah: you cant even explain what I said Enemy Player: cait Duo Partner: (i accidentally take a siege minion) Kovah: showed my true colors? Duo Partner: 3 minutes later Kovah: goddess how am I trolling? Duo Partner: You: damn we missed that siege minion :
Duo Partner: (I accidentally take your melee minion) Duo Partner: You: ... Duo Partner: like... Enemy Player: wow Duo Partner: you're an asshole dude Enemy Player: thats pretty passive Enemy Player: aggressive Kovah: k Duo Partner: you get upset over the smallest shit Duo Partner: tiny mistakes = you whining Kovah: me typing ... when you take a seige minion Duo Partner: yeah thats true Duo Partner: but you are also, an asshole Kovah: is just letting you know you shouldnt do that Duo Partner: lol Kovah: thats part of the game Duo Partner: you're an asshole. Kovah: this is a game Duo Partner: goodbye. Enemy Player: people Kovah: when you do something you shouldnt, I'm going to tell you Duo Partner left the room. Enemy Player: that are aholes Enemy Player: irl Enemy Player: tend to act Enemy Player: that way in game Kovah: how am I an asshole for typing ... Kovah: like, that makes me an asshole? Enemy Player: its passive aggressive Enemy Player: lol Kovah: do you even know what that means? Enemy Player: yeah i do Kovah: so when he throws a Q out and intent hits low hp seige, and I type ... that means im a jerk? Enemy Player: and Enemy Player: now you think Kovah: I'm typing ... like "uh what r u doing?" Enemy Player: hes intentionally Enemy Player: doing it Enemy Player: ?> Kovah: were you there? Enemy Player: i laned Kovah: he did it multiple times Enemy Player: vs u Enemy Player: lol Kovah: over multiple games Enemy Player: then Enemy Player: dont duo Enemy Player: with him Enemy Player: you literally Enemy Player: said Enemy Player: why play Enemy Player: 15 Enemy Player: games Enemy Player: with an ahole Enemy Player: so same for u Kovah: because we were having agood time Kovah: laughing Kovah: joking around Kovah: winning games Enemy Player: u literally Enemy Player: said Enemy Player: he was doing it for multiple games Kovah: yea? Enemy Player: so Kovah: what does that have to do with us having a good time Enemy Player: why does it bother Enemy Player: u that much Enemy Player: u obv were bothered Kovah: thats the point Enemy Player: when he did it Enemy Player: ?? Enemy Player: whats the point Enemy Player: lol Kovah: it didnt bother me that much, i simply typed ... Enemy Player: youve Enemy Player: been doing Enemy Player: that Enemy Player: the whole day Kovah: its a question "what r you doing?" Enemy Player: with that passive aggressive Enemy Player: shit Enemy Player: no Enemy Player: lol Enemy Player: ... Enemy Player: is not Enemy Player: what are you doing Kovah: no, i did it maybe 3 times Enemy Player: ? Enemy Player: its not the same thing lol Enemy Player: its more of a sigh Enemy Player: lol Kovah: so sighing is being an asshole now? Kovah: do you realize how insane that sounds? Enemy Player: its a passive Enemy Player: agressive Enemy Player: i didnt Enemy Player: say Enemy Player: u were an ahole Enemy Player: im not saying uwere right Enemy Player: but Enemy Player: if you really Enemy Player: need to argue Enemy Player: that u arent an ahole Enemy Player: instead of just apologizing Enemy Player: or realziing Enemy Player: u did something wrong Enemy Player: there might be a problem Kovah: a problem? Enemy Player: yep Enemy Player: a chemistry one atleast Enemy Player: idk how u act irl Kovah: I have a problem because this guy freaked out after playing for over 7 hours with me Enemy Player: or with others Enemy Player: so? Enemy Player: just because Enemy Player: you're with Enemy Player: someone for a long Enemy Player: time Enemy Player: doesnt mean something gets better Enemy Player: in fact it can get annoying Enemy Player: would you spend 24 hours Kovah: over the course of that 7 hours, I can remember typing ... one time, I asked him "what are you doing" another time, and I said "uh we missed that one dude" Kovah: thats it Enemy Player: 365 days an year Enemy Player: with ur gf Enemy Player: ? Kovah: now do you know how many fun things we said? Enemy Player: you're treating Enemy Player: him Kovah: A LOT Enemy Player: pretty badly Enemy Player: "uh we missed that one dude" Enemy Player: that is the Enemy Player: most Enemy Player: passive Enemy Player: aggressive Enemy Player: shit Enemy Player: i have ever Enemy Player: seen Kovah: oh I see now Kovah: ur a social justice warrior Kovah: got it Kovah: haha Enemy Player: ??? Enemy Player: ur path of logic Enemy Player: is rly weird Enemy Player: you literally Enemy Player: think Kovah: listen, you and him are sensitive beyond being sensitiv Enemy Player: you did nothing wrong Enemy Player: typical Enemy Player: thing Enemy Player: an ahole Enemy Player: would say Kovah: you and him are getting upset that someone types ... Enemy Player: haha Enemy Player: who said Enemy Player: im upset Enemy Player: the fuck Enemy Player: ? Enemy Player: im not upset Enemy Player: lel Enemy Player: i just think ur a dick Kovah: you are saying I have a problem, and that typing ... is the most passive aggressive thing you can do to someone Enemy Player: i didnt say that Enemy Player: lol Enemy Player: i said Kovah: k Kovah: scroll up Enemy Player: "uh we missed that one dude" Enemy Player: is Enemy Player: yea Enemy Player: lol Kovah: btw im posting this convo and blanking out ur name Kovah: because this is insane. Enemy Player: alright Enemy Player: just make sure Enemy Player: u put the title Kovah: night! Enemy Player: as Enemy Player: I got trolled Enemy Player: by a rando Enemy Player: pce bitch Enemy Player: hilarious Enemy Player: u actually care about this shit so much Enemy Player: im laughing so hard Enemy Player: over this Enemy Player: with my friends Enemy Player: on skype

11 Comments

ShinkoMinori4 votes

You sound like a huge asshole imo. Anyone who says "why" when you make a mistake is on my bottom tier of stupid. I have a friend that I know for years and if wasn't coz of that I wouldn't even tell him how much that bothers someone, I would just remove him.

Kovah2 votes

Um, I never said he was making mistakes and I questioned them, I never once did that to him. He sat there, in a bush, shooting off spells at NOTHING right before lane phase was about to start, wasting mana and I asked him what he was doing. That's it. There was nothing else to that conversation. I simply asked him what he was doing. The same thing goes for him taking CS. He would purposely take CS, not a mistake, and I asked him what he was doing. Again, nothing else was said. I did not rage, blame, NOTHING. I simply asked what was going on. I really fail to see how me asking what he is doing when I am genuinely confused at what he is doing makes me a "huge asshole"

ShinkoMinori4 votes

He even explains it to you but you seem to not get it. You are the classical ASSHOLE, who is immune to criticism and just does what he pleases. Learn to accept who you are, or change, either way right now you are a despicable human being.

Kovah3 votes

He explained I am an asshole because I asked him a question. He was doing something I didn't understand, and asked him what he was doing. Please, without avoiding a real answer, tell me how that makes me a "classic asshole" and a "despicable human being". You are treating me like I had just verbally assaulted him for several hours straight with profanity and forced him to play games with me. I couldn't have been nicer to this guy, and for you to actually say that I am such a bad person and not even give a reason is just plain wrong.

ShinkoMinori4 votes

I gave you the reason, read my first post, you did that, but for you there is no valid reason unless is someone approving your behavior or siding with you. You are classical asshole because you are always right and you only want to satisfy your ego by looking for an answer that would say "they are sensitive dude, you are right you are not an asshole" that's the only answer you seek from anyone reading this.

Kovah3 votes

You reason is invalid. You state "anyway who says "why" when another makes a mistake is stupid" and presumably an asshole. That is not the situation here. I did not harass him after making a mistake. I was curious what he was doing when he started performing strange actions in the game and asked him what he was doing. So you are now going on about how I am a "classical asshole" for absolutely no reason.

If you were playing with someone and they ran into the enemy turret before minions spawned, by your logic, you would be a despicable asshole of a human being for asking him "dude what are you doing?". That is not my opinion, that is just plain wrong. You have no idea what kind of person I am, and to so adamantly assume I am a jerk is wrong. I have been calm and polite for everything I said, while you sit here and rudely insult me for reasons you are just plain making up. Someone is not a jerk for asking a question, that is insanity that you would think so.

ShinkoMinori2 votes

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You reason is invalid.

I have been calm and polite for everything I said, while you sit here and rudely insult me for reasons you are just plain making up. Someone is not a jerk for asking a question, that is insanity that you would think so.

You made up your mind before even starting this thread, you don't seek insight you only seek validation for your ego. I rest my case. Also you should check the downvotes you are getting. But then again it wouldn't mean anything to an asshole like you.

Kovah3 votes

Do you realize that I have explained myself and you keep repeating the same thing over and over? You aren't providing anything of substance you just keep insulting me over and over again. I pointed out you have an invalid reason because the context you use doesnt apply to what I said, and you cant say anything other than to insult. I'm sorry man, i'm open to someone explaining how asking questions is rude but so far you have done absolutely nothing to prove your point.

Sarutobi2 votes

i can kinda see why, and can agree with Shinko. at least from these logs it does seem like you are being an asshole. One small mistake and you are typing ..., or what are you doing can be irritating. People make mistakes and to be constantly reminded of it does take a toll on you if the person keeps spamming it. We dont have the logs from that game so its hard to say. But from the looks of these logs you seem to come off as someone who needs to criticize someone for every little mistake, and when someone calls you out on it you get very defensive!

Kovah2 votes

I'm not sure where you are getting the notion that my duo was making a mistake and I harassed him over it. The only times I commented and said "..." was when he intentionally did something that negatively impacted the game. Key word "intentionally". Do you think it is rude to ask someone what they are doing when they are doing something you don't understand?

I only get defensive when people verbally attack me stating I'm an asshole for frankly just asking my duo partner a question. You fail to explain how that is rude, thousands of people ask questions to teammates every day.

Sarutobi2 votes

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I'm not sure where you are getting the notion that my duo was making a mistake and I harassed him over it. The only times I commented and said "..." was when he intentionally did something that negatively impacted the game. Key word "intentionally". Do you think it is rude to ask someone what they are doing when they are doing something you don't understand?

I only get defensive when people verbally attack me stating I'm an asshole for frankly just asking my duo partner a question. You fail to explain how that is rude, thousands of people ask questions to teammates every day.

Like I said its hard to say when we only have these chat logs to go by. If we had the ones in the game you are talking about that might clear things up! But at least from how these chat logs it's coming off with you being really passive aggressive just like the other person said. All I'm giving you is my opinion with the evidence I'm presented!

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