Acknowledge Our Arrogance to increase civility

La Belle Sauvage··1 votes·257 views

I'm guilty of being toxic in game and being arrogant in my views. I'm trying to improve that in myself​.

Many people claim how Toxic this community can be, but I've also see how good it can be. The linked article is an excellent read. Check it out.

Perhaps if we as players and human beings can admit we don't have all the answers then we'd be more willing to listen to each other.

"Overcoming toxic arrogance is not easy, and our present political moment is not making it any easier. But if we want to live in a tolerant society where we are not only open-minded but willing to learn from others, we need to balance humility and conviction. We can start by looking past ourselves — and admitting that we don’t know it all."

www.chronicle.com/article/Teaching-Humility-in-an-Age-of/240266?cid=wcontentgrid_hp_2

(A sort of follow up to my earlier post about a girlfriend who encouraged her boyfriend to commit suicide)

5 Comments

HalcyonDweller1 votes

Awesome article, I'm going to have to look more up from this author!

Thanks for posting about it

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La Belle Sauvage1 votes

You're welcome Hal!

I've read a lot of articles and books about reason, Philosophy, and the bias that comes with critical thinking and evaluating and then challenging my own beliefs. I'm just starting my journey, so I have a long way to go.

HalcyonDweller2 votes

It's a vastly enriching subject! If you have more suggestions to offer I'd be happy to look into them.

Have you heard of "Thank you for Arguing" by Jay Heinrich? it's quite entertaining while also being very useful.

On the topic of your 'journey' I just want to say I really appreciate what you've said so far on the boards. You've raised great points, campaigned against toxicity, and all in all fought for reason and truth. It's very good to have you aboard the boards!

La Belle Sauvage1 votes

You're welcome! Likewise, I thank you for the kind words! I have not read the book you suggested, but I will put it on the list.

I tend to read many books at a time so it takes me a while to finish them all. Currently I am reading Demon Haunted World by Carl Sagan. And I just finished Astrophysics for people in a hurry, by Neil Degrass Tyson. I'm also reading a book called The Philosophy Book, big ideas simply explained, and Exploring the Scientific Method by Steven Gimbel.

There are so many cross references in these books! I keep stopping to follow authors that are mentioned and investigate ideas and concepts I don't understand.

Oh! Also Do I Make Myself Clear, by Sir Harold Evans. Excellent book. According to my Kindle I'm around 12% through all of them.

HalcyonDweller1 votes

Thanks for the references, I'll have to look them up!

Those all sound really interesting, I hope you get plenty of enjoyment out of them :)

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