A little secret I have learned after two weeks in gold
Ok so.. this is going to sound like common sense but until you accept these two factors you will not rank up to where you want to be. I am going to speak from gold elo or lower (although the idea does apply to higher ranks as well). First, Gold players are not much better than silver players (like at all). This leads us to the big "secret".
Second and the "big secret" is this game is all about grinding and averages. The only way to rank up is to play games and grind. To rank up higher you need to play on average at a certain elo. Once you play enough games and perform at that elo you will rank up to that rank. You will have trolls, afkers, bad games, great games, but none of that matters. The only thing you can control is what you do every game. So play your best, learn from your mistakes, and rank up.
After 2.5 years of grinding and finally getting gold I thought "omg I am finally here now its time for ranked to start to be competitive and hard". Well... not so much. Granted, games are a little harder and a little more competitive but generally speaking we all still suck. There are many mistakes made each game, there are ragers, afkers, feeders and blah blah blah blah blah etc. The only difference is these players "on average" play better than those at a little lower elo. What this means is players cs will be a little higher, the mini map will be watched a little more, objectives will be taken and contested a little more, etc.
So my personal experience is this. Stuck in silver 2 for 2 years. Finally wake up and decide to play my best role and best champ
support. I have a roughly 60% winning percentage as her in this role. Start to do that while continuing to learn the game and from my mistakes, and also playing other champs I have confidence in on other roles and go from a roughly 49% W/L percentage to 51%. That difference is silver 2 to gold 5. Only thing changing is playing on average at a little higher elo while also playing champs and positions I have a fairly decent win percentage in. I changed my mindset from "ugg feeders afkers, blah blah blah in my last 3 games" to "ah shit that game went poorly going to take a break". Next game "alright what can I do this game to try and get the win". You have to forget about the last game and only focus on the next game. The past is the past learn from it and move on.
