I disagree. For me the best time ive ever had in gaming was when everyone knew how to play at a fairly decent level, but everyone was there to have a good time.
This was like 3 years ago in CS GO at the Master Guardian ranks.
Everyone was a pretty decent player with good aim and good game knowledge. everyone had developed to a point where they knew their strengths and weaknesses and they played around them. Many players were just guns on the field. Others had better game sense. I was one with game sense over skill. which meant I naturally gravitated to IGL (In game leader) And would call strats.
But again Master Guardian was the party rank. it was essentially plat in skill level. But it was the rank where people just wanted to have a good time. before that rank people try harded to rank up. Above that rank you were really trying to improve as players and so they took the game more seriously. MG 1,2 and E were just people having a good time.
And to make this clear. I never once qued with friends at this rank. When i was a MG players I was a 100% solo player and have incredibly fond memories of meeting really nice people in that rank. Very few bad experiences. almost all good. Sadly those days are long gone and there isnt really a party rank in CS anymore thanks to Valve's De rank fiesta.
Also. It wasnt like people werent taking the game seriously. Everyone was playing to win. But we understood that you can play to win and still have fun. It really is what instilled that in me. And now i get tilted off the face of the earth when people say "its just normals" cause thats the wrong mentality. the right mentality is to play to win, but have fun doing it.