Can I stop getting autofilled from sitting in queue for 1:00-:1:30 seconds?

It's not like the queue is popping, someone dodges and I'm sitting on the same queue timer. I wait for a 1:00 to 1:30, queue pops and I immediately get support.

Is the player-base that bad right now? I shouldn't constantly have to dodge and getting a 30 minute plus timer because Riot won't let me sit in a 3-5 minute queue to guarantee my role so I can play optimally for my team.

Maybe i'm just expected to re-queue once the timer hits 40 seconds now.