Yes, I've had a bunch of games where I took Darius somewhere other then top, and my team was apprehensive. The trick is to be neutral. Let them know you understand why they don't want you to do that. But be firm in the fact that you want to, and you are, and to at least give you a chance. You get in game, you get in the zone, and you do your thing. Jungle Darius is a jungler. You're Darius, but you're a jungling Darius. You wanna wash your warrior enchant and gank anytime you have Red buff up. Try to give kills, don't hesitate to get them yourself though either.
Mid Lane Darius. Don't try to show off. Farm, pick your trades, and catch people off guard. Support Darius? Remind them you have a slow, a grab, and an execute. You're tank, bring dmg to the bot lane, and cc. You q a minion wave once basically and your adc mops up the cs with ease. You eat aggro and turn ganks into triple kills. If your adc isn't the Rock Star arch type, they're gonna get over whatever incidents your bleed pops a minion or gets a kill, because you're both snow balling.
Doesn't always happen, but you have both not let your team mates reactions put you in a bad spot, while also not ignoring them and being respectful of their input. I've had more games where people have "come around" to my non meta Darius then games where they start out and end up negative about my choices.