In all seriousness... how do you carry a team without map awareness??

Let me put it this way, last ggame i had a VERY easy matchup and a team i could snowball pretty easily against as long as i made minimal mistakes (Me as kat with enemy Nasus, lucian, ahri, trynd, and morg with morg being the let her touch you or you die). I did pretty well, mistakes were made, but i was unable to snowball my lead or even remotely carry/help my team because my top basically allowed nasus to free farm after she won lane and i would have to abandon my lane to go pressure him off of our inhib (noone but m noticed he was at our inhib or othr towers so i would constantly have to leave to defend/die because noone would show up and he would bring company while they were busy circle jerking mid.

I know that i could have carried that but you know as well as i do Kat cannot clear a superminion wave efficiently or even safely. Didn't really help that there was no team synergy. What do i even do?? I couldn't roam because (my poppy didn't notice everytime i ganked for her that i had pinged omw/target nasus), bot would never call mia so top or myself would have to 3v1 constantly, and no matter how far pushed up top or jg was on our inhib or towers they would chase or farm so I would have to go deal with them and I think you can imagine how well kat does against kat/tryndamere mid game.

I honestly was at aloss of words, and my jungler was flaming our adc who put in more work than i did, and was basically the only other person counter pushing/defending when i had pointed out that we NEEDED someone to push out top past the river. Even if i had pingded that the enemy was trying to backdoor us my team would run around in circles mid/try to 3-4/5 because myself and or vayne was defending. Like honestly what the hell what do i even do? Do i afk and wait? It seems like a waste of time trying to play a game where you need to verbally tell players to LOOK AT THEIR MINIMAP and Listen out for pings!