This feels like an attempt to push Orianna in to a supportive role and asking for unnecessary changes. Truth be told, Orianna is the last of her kind to exist in League as a utility mage. Everything about her is balanced, well designed and fine. So why force items like Athene's and Ardent on to her? She's got the right mixture of offensive and defensive power and still plays around her utility.
I agree she has some burst in her kit, but to say not building Athene's and Ardent on her is a waste is a pity. The way I see it, Utility Mages fall in to two different groups, Carry Utility Mage who play very much like Utility ADC, and the full on Utility Mage who end up playing supportively come late game like Lulu and Sona.
Orianna has always been widely regarded as being healthy and balanced. She can carry when her passive and utilities are put in to good use. Being a utility mage doesn't necessarily mean that after mid phase of the game, you start supporting more. It just means that your utilities become a much more integral part of your ability to carry. Give me a Carry utility mage over Mid Lulu anyday.
It's such a pity Riot doesn't want to enforce the concept of a Carry Utility Mage but allow such a thing a Utility ADC to be a prominent thing. Almost all utility mages have been pushed in to a supportive role to centralize them along with supports. Karma and Morgana used to be Carry Utility Mage, and now they're played Supportively 50% of the time, while the other 50% people will tell you to go something more staple like Ahri/Zed.
Honestly speaking, give me a Carry utility mage anytime over "overly unique" champions like Aurelion Sol/Taliyah.
Going back to your question, build AP if you're going Mid. Ardent Censer/Athenes are situational items and you're not doing injustice to Orianna for not building it on her.