I played a jungle game today, because I was autofilled jungle. I'm not a good jungler, but I did what I could. I helped mid and botlane getting ahead, ganked mid 3 times in the first 5 minutes, getting myself behind in the jungle but snowballed my midlaner hard, I didn't ganked toplane once before like 18 minutes and my toplane kept crying, untill I had to tell him: "every jungler is different, everyone focus other lanes to snowball, I chose bot and mid, so clam down and try to stall it out."
Wonder worked, he stopped crying, played safe and started to work as team.
You are no superstar, don't think your jungler will ignore the other lanes just because you're too bad to win your own. Play safe untill your jungler has an opportunity to gank or just appreciate that he probably helps out the other lanes. Stop thinking about yourself only, you have 4 teammates, it is no soloplayer game with a big mommy to help you out when you mess up.