Are there really people in soloqueue that don't ditch supports and treat us like actual human beings instead of their ward bitch?
Anyways it's usually the other way around. Some carry goes way too deep into the jungle, I ping, I type don't go in there, they keep going. I see 2 people coming to where he's dueling with someone, I ping again. I heal, I shield, it's too late because they overestimated their ability, get locked down and deleted. I flash or speed away because another death makes no sense, they lose their marbles in all chat talking about how I'm the worst support that ever lived because I didn't die with them.
I see this happen to countless other supports again and again. Please do not have the "go down with the ship" mentality. A support death still counts, so you should always focus on your safety first. It's kind of like how they tell you on airplanes. Please secure your oxygen mask before helping the person next to you, even if it's a child. Many of these carries are children.
If you can save your ADC by sacrificing yourself, and really this situation is so rare, obviously you should do that. Everyone should for their carry in soloqueue, but that situation is really rare.
For reference I'm by no means an AP support main or a poke support main. I play champions that emphasize trading and disengages.