Can i have 4 minutes of your time.

Jesus Is My King··2 votes·2,008 views

I would genuinely love to talk to all of you about this game.

First of all. Ask your self, (don't need to reply to me on what you say.) But ask yourself. do you enjoy league?

Second. Are you able to stop playing? if not, why cant you. addiction? thats fine. i can understand that.

i would like to provide a website on how many hours you play league in its entirety. Heres the link, put your username into it and it will show the amount of time provided to this game.

https://wol.gg/

My Record shows... ive have spent 102,255 minutes. or 1,704 hours or 71 DAYS

71 days. of PURE league of legends. that is actually insane when you think about 71 days worth of pure league of legends.

There is a guy that has played 512 days worth of his life on this single game, that changes all the time. it is frustrating. I don't get how that person hasn't hit the bucket yet. this game has driven me insane in my 30th day of pure league. but 512.... that's a fuck ton of time... that you can never get back, When i say Get back I mean the things you could have done in that time. replace league with anything else.

At that point, 512 days isn't just out of fun for the game, its a competition for him. he wants to be the #1 person... the record holder for this game.

Isn't time to move onto something new?

What finally killed the addiction (yes, i actually was addicted to this game.) what killed the addiction was another game for me. it was Elsword. yeah i get it. kids game, but this game isnt about 30 minutes at a time, doing the same thing over and over and over. this game has variety on charaters, items, dungeons, etc. you progress. and dont start over from minute 1 again.

I hope you guys actually can stop playing league because i care for those that are unhappy yet still play this game. i want you to try and find something new for the sake of sanity. dont play this game. accept what elo your in, or accept the highest elo youve made it too. i made it to P5, hoping to get to diamond this year. but the changes that are constantly made to league cannot let me go past P5.

im happy with P5, im not trying to prove anything. and i hope you can understand that.

Just find a game. anything. League should not be your answer. this game is so toxic, Elsword is friendly. league makes me hate life. Elsword doesn't.

5 weeks of not playing league and i feel great, i want others to feel good about themselves too on games.

46 Comments

La Belle Sauvage9 votes

Just because you were addicted, if in fact you were actually addicted, doesn't mean most are.

And play time especially when considered over the span of time can be shocking until you put it into perspective.

For example how would you spend the time you gain back if not on a Video Game?

If the answer is you'd invest the same amount of time into another hobby, then your whole time point is moot. Because you would just spend that time doing something else.

I don't, despite popular opinion, find this game toxic. The players can be, but I can control that as well.

Interestingly, you like many other people, tie their self worth into how good they are at any video game.

And really that's the Crux of the situation. I don't feel any where close as you do. I play the game a ton and I'm still in Silver.

I'm okay with that. I enjoy the game and? My self worth is not dependent on how I perform In any games I play.

Eternäl5 votes

Dude, people like the game. Your post is essentially just an attempt at making people feel bad for putting time into something they enjoy, even if they get frustrated from time to time. League is a competitive, mechanic heavy game, of course, people are going to get upset or frustrated periodically. I've spent, according to that site, around 53 days playing league. That time doesn't feel wasted to me at all because those 53 days were accumulated over the course of well over 4 years. I have other stuff I do. Most people that put time into league also have jobs or school or other hobbies in general. That website is incredibly misleading in its omission of how much time you've spent not playing league within whatever timespan you've played league. Based on what you've said league is just not for you. To people that actually enjoy the game and like spending time on improving, just like any other hobby such as art, this post just seems like a slap in the face. This isn't helping anyone. The people that may need a wakeup call aren't the ones that are on the boards, they're in game. Spending the time that they should be using to find a job or study or something instead to play league. The ones that are actually incurring a detriment on themselves through massive amounts of play time aren't going to be on the boards.

Jesus Is My King

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Dude, people like the game. Your post is essentially just an attempt at making people feel bad for putting time into something they enjoy, even if they get frustrated from time to time. League is a competitive, mechanic heavy game, of course, people are going to get upset or frustrated periodically. I've spent, according to that site, around 53 days playing league. That time doesn't feel wasted to me at all because those 53 days were accumulated over the course of well over 4 years. I have other stuff I do. Most people that put time into league also have jobs or school or other hobbies in general. That website is incredibly misleading in its omission of how much time you've spent not playing league within whatever timespan you've played league. Based on what you've said league is just not for you. To people that actually enjoy the game and like spending time on improving, just like any other hobby such as art, this post just seems like a slap in the face. This isn't helping anyone. The people that may need a wakeup call aren't the ones that are on the boards, they're in game. Spending the time that they should be using to find a job or study or something instead to play league. The ones that are actually incurring a detriment on themselves through massive amounts of play time aren't going to be on the boards.

Tyler 1 hates this game yet is addicted. the games not for him, but he keeps playing because twitch is his job.

good, check your time on the game, i want you to feel bad on how much time was wasted on this game. how frustrating everyone gets. i want you to realise this.

La Belle Sauvage2 votes

Tyler one is not a shiny example of how anyone should be (his schtick, I don't know him personally)

Don't be prone to blindly accept what people say without some sort of proof.

It's a popular sentiment among non gamers, that every gamer who games any amount of time is addicted.

When in reality, it's not how non-gamers spend their time. And a lot of people have a very hard time accepting how other people live or spend their time when it doesn't match their personal values.

Furthermore, it means to me that these same people must have people conform to their way of thinking as a defense mechanism to confirm what they think k is right, which means they aren't actually confident in what they think.

People who are confident might say the following about gamers who spend a lot of time gaming.

"Gaming? Yeah that's cool, but not for me, I enjoy x."

They don't say "Gaming? You spent how long? What a waste of time You should do like I do and do x."

By the way this sort of B.S think applies to more than just hobbies.

Youll find it in religion and politics too.

Be aware of it. Decide for yourself what's acceptable and act accordingly and be happy with your choice. Don't shit on other who choose differently from you.

Jesus Is My King1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Bello Bagheera,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=000300000000,timestamp=2018-06-29T18:32:28.412+0000)

Tyler one is not a shiny example of how anyone should be (his schtick, I don't know him personally)

Don't be prone to blindly accept what people say without some sort of proof.

It's a popular sentiment among non gamers, that every gamer who games any amount of time is addicted.

When in reality, it's now how non gamers spgend their time. And a lot of people have a very hard time accepting how other people live or spend their time when it doesn't match their personal values.

Furthermore, it means to me that these same people must have people conform to their way of thinking as a defense mechanism to confirm what they think k is right, which means they aren't actually confident in what they think.

People who are confident might say of gamers who spent a lot of time the following.

"Gaming? Yeah that's cool, but not for me, I enjoy x."

They don't say "Gaming? You spent how long? What a waste of time you should do like I do and do x."

By the way this sort of B.S think applies to more than just hobbies.

Youll find it in religion and politics too.

Be aware of it. Decide for yourself what's acceptable and act accordingly and be happy with your choice. Don't shit on other who choose differently from you.

ill just shit on others that think differently than me.

La Belle Sauvage1 votes

No, I think it's great you took stock of your time and changed accordingly.

I think it's b.s. that you need strangers to come here and agree with you to confirm your thoughts, which means to me

(note that doesn't mean it's actually true, I'm expressing my opinion based on your thoughts)

You aren't actually as confident as you want us to believe.

My rebuttal of part of you post isn't an ad hominem fallacy and therefore I'm not shitting on you.

Jesus Is My King1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Bello Bagheera,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=00030000000000000000,timestamp=2018-06-29T18:38:22.680+0000)

No, I'm think it's great you took stock of tour time and changed accordingly.

I think it's b.s. that you need strangers to come here and agree with you to confirm your thoughts, which means to me

(note that doesn't mean it's actually true, I'm expressing my opinion based on your thoughts)

You aren't actually as confident as you want us to believe.

My rebuttal of part of you post isn't an ad hominem fallacy and therefore I'm not shitting on you.

dude at this point it doesnt even matter, im confident in what i said in my OP.

i dont care anymore dude. look at all the chats, no one cares, i tried. doesnt matter. i dont care anymore, they dont care, so fuck it dude, all is good.

La Belle Sauvage1 votes

It doesn't appear you're confident, because you're unable to accept the responders to your post don't agree.

And instead of engaging in conversation you just mimic responses because you don't know how to respond because your conviction isn't what you claim it is.

That's my best guess.

Eternäl2 votes

You might want to take a look at your stance and beliefs if, when you present them to a large body of your intended audience, they get overwhelmingly rejected. Most of the people here are responding to you with calm and thought out responses, and your response to a lot of them is 'oh you're just shitting on me because you disagree.' instead of looking at why so many people disagree. Your responses just lead me to believe you're the kind of person that believes themselves 'woke' to the 'real world' while ignoring all of the evidence to the contrary (the entire comment thread).

Jesus Is My King1 votes

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You might want to take a look at your stance and beliefs if, when you present them to a large body of your intended audience, they get overwhelmingly rejected. Most of the people here are responding to you with calm and thought out responses, and your response to a lot of them is 'oh you're just shitting on me because you disagree.' instead of looking at why so many people disagree. Your responses just lead me to believe you're the kind of person that believes themselves 'woke' to the 'real world' while ignoring all of the evidence to the contrary (the entire comment thread).

ima just put a comment here letting you know i saw words and figured i should reply with something.

La Belle Sauvage1 votes

Be gone troll.

Jesus Is My King2 votes

[{quoted}](name=Bello Bagheera,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=000300000000000000000000000100000000,timestamp=2018-06-29T19:32:26.387+0000)

Be gone troll.

lol bye

ZephyrDrake2 votes

[{quoted}](name=The 1st Angel,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=000300000000000000000000,timestamp=2018-06-29T18:40:09.140+0000)

dude at this point it doesnt even matter, im confident in what i said in my OP.

i dont care anymore dude. look at all the chats, no one cares, i tried. doesnt matter. i dont care anymore, they dont care, so fuck it dude, all is good.

No, you didn't try. You didn't even attempt to try. You just said your thing and dismissed/ignored/made fun of everyone who had a different opinion than yours. You didn't even attempt to defend your faulty argument at all. I'll say this, stop trying to put your believes and opinions into other people's head when you cannot even be bothered to defend them yourself

Kaioko3 votes

The time I play League would've just been spent on another video game or watching TV. I don't really consider it a waste.

Jesus Is My King1 votes

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The time I play League would've just been spent on another video game or watching TV. I don't really consider it a waste.

do you get mad though , that is the whole point of this article. are you happy.

La Belle Sauvage3 votes

There is a guy that has played 512 days worth of his life on this single game, that changes all the time. it is frustrating. I don't get how that person hasn't hit the bucket yet. this game has driven me insane in my 30th day of pure league. but 512.... that's a fuck ton of time... that you can never get back, When i say Get back I mean the things you could have done in that time. replace league with anything else.

You find it fustrating and it's fine, but your point about "I can't get x days back.." line of thinking is a bit ridiculous.

It's about choices you make and opportunity cost. If you choose A opportunity, you are giving up B opportunity given that A &B cannot both be chosen.

Example: you choose to read 1Q84 (a personal favorite). That means your passing on the opportunity to read or spend your time elsewhere as you read this book.

That's why your point (not you!) Is ridiculous. No shit that's 512 days they can't get back. They choose to invest it, thus understanding they're giving up time they could do something else.

Funniest, is that you make the case that LoL isn't worth anyones time because that's how you feel. Not that it's Inherently true. But then replace it with some other game?!

I'm happy you found something else, but don't try to shit on everyone else's parade under the guise that you're the pied Piper of addicted gamers.

Because it may be the case that once you realized the amount of time you spent on this game was more than you were comfortable with?

You concluded you were addicted.

That's not how gaming addiction works.

Jesus Is My King1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Bello Bagheera,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=0004,timestamp=2018-06-29T18:23:39.890+0000)

You find it fustrating and it's fine, but your point about "I can't get x days back.." line of thinking is a bit ridiculous.

It's about choices you make and opportunity cost. If you choose A opportunity, you are giving up B opportunity given that A &B cannot both be chosen.

Example: you choose to read 1Q84 (a personal favorite). That means your passing on the opportunity to read or spend your time elsewhere as you read this book.

That's why your point (not you!) Is ridiculous. No shit that's 512 days they can't get back. They choose to invest it, thus understanding they're giving up time they could do something else.

Funniest, is that you make the case that LoL isn't worth anyones time because that's how you feel. Not that it's Inherently true. But then replace it with some other game?!

I'm happy you found something else, but don't try to shit on everyone else's parade under the guise that you're the pied Piper of addicted gamers.

Because it may be the case that once you realized the amount of time you spent on this game was more than you were comfortable with?

You concluded you were addicted.

That's not how gaming addiction works.

Regrets. thats all i need to say for most of that comment.

La Belle Sauvage2 votes

I'm not sure what that means, outside you're unwilling to have a conversation with someone you disagree with.

Jesus Is My King1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Bello Bagheera,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=000400000000,timestamp=2018-06-29T18:33:57.445+0000)

I'm not sure what that means outside you're unable to have a conversation with someone you disagree with.

same

Jesus Is My King2 votes

keep the downvotes coming in! theyre just as good as upvotes! :)

Jesus Is My King1 votes

getting downvoted because helping people is downvote worthy. just another great thing about not playing league anymore. the feeling of trying to help, but dont want it haha

YokoNomi11 votes

[{quoted}](name=The 1st Angel,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=0001,timestamp=2018-06-29T18:02:30.366+0000)

getting downvoted because helping people is downvote worthy. just another great thing about not playing league anymore. the anger of trying to help, but dont want it haha

You're coming off as an ass by telling people to leave the game, openly, on the company's own forums, motivated by your own personal disinterest in the game, due to an issue you personally created for yourself. I can see why someone'd have an issue with that.

Jesus Is My King1 votes

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You're coming off as an ass by telling people to leave the game, openly, on the company's own forums, motivated by your own personal disinterest in the game, due to an issue you personally created for yourself. I can see why someone'd have an issue with that.

yeah, basically telling everyone to stop playing because of constant changes, and time. yes, this is correct.

YokoNomi10 votes

[{quoted}](name=The 1st Angel,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=000100000000,timestamp=2018-06-29T18:16:58.446+0000)

yeah, basically telling everyone to stop playing because of constant changes, and time. yes, this is correct.

You're intentionally ignoring the problem. There a reason for that?

Jesus Is My King1 votes

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You're intentionally ignoring the problem. There a reason for that?

just answering back to you because your right. i am telling people to quit.

Eedat4 votes

And you're having trouble understanding why you're being downvoted?

Jesus Is My King1 votes

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And you're having trouble understanding why you're being downvoted?

i downvoted myself. trouble understanding no. it makes sense to be downvoted by the most toxic community period.

Eedat4 votes

No, you got downvoted because you're trying to tell people who came here to discuss gameplay and balance to stop playing because you lack self control. Further evident by how you didnt really beat your addiction, you just replaced it. You solved absolutely nothing lol. You're the equivalent of a crackhead that switched to meth but its ok because you dont smoke crack anymore and are trying to preach about how great meth is lol

Deez Crits5 votes

the anger of trying to help, but dont want it haha

Can you fix your grammar? If you're going to try and counsel people, you need to have some semblance of being educated. Otherwise, I can't take you seriously.

You're arrogant if you think you understand psychology but aren't well versed enough to communicate properly.

Jesus Is My King1 votes

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Deez Crits2 votes

One in "oh so many"? How many people are in your cult? Quit blowing smoke up your own ass. You've got no mental capacity.

P.S. Your sentence still doesn't make grammatical sense, if you're wondering.

Jesus Is My King1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Deez Crits,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=0001000100000000,timestamp=2018-06-29T18:29:28.988+0000)

One in "oh so many"? How many people are in your cult? Quit blowing smoke up your own ass. You've got no mental capacity.

where are you getting cult from lmao, and probably right. keep replying :)

P.S.S thats okay. your still here

Jesus Is My King1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Deez Crits,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=00010001,timestamp=2018-06-29T18:23:01.473+0000)

Can you fix your grammar? If you're going to try and counsel people, you need to have some semblance of being educated. Otherwise, I can't take you seriously.

You're arrogant if you think you understand psychology but aren't well versed enough to communicate properly.

actually ill help you. i downvoted my post too.

La Belle Sauvage2 votes

Unsolicited help will never be wanted. You made an assumption and now you're seeing the result of it.

If truly you want to help gamers who are actually addicted? Study up on the topic and volunteer at a clinic. Put your Goodwill where your mouth is and actually take action.

Jesus Is My King1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Bello Bagheera,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=00010002,timestamp=2018-06-29T18:41:05.702+0000)

Unsolicited help will never he wanted. You made an assumption and now you're seeing the result of it.

If truly you want to help gamers who are actually addicted? Study up on the topic and volunteer at a clinic. Put your Goodwill where your mouth is and actually take action.

no gamer is going to a clinic. i dont care if people addicted, i care about people being addicted to a Trash game. i support addiction to good games. not bad ones.

La Belle Sauvage2 votes

And people saw through your false concern and called you on it.

The fact you state you support addiction in any form underscores your ignorance of addiction.

We saw through your veiled concerm post and saw it for what it is, a sad rant.

Happy to see you exit the community.

Sayonara!

Jesus Is My King1 votes

[{quoted}](name=Bello Bagheera,realm=NA,application-id=3ErqAdtq,discussion-id=NhpF2MuE,comment-id=0001000200000000,timestamp=2018-06-29T19:30:52.666+0000)

And people saw through your false concern and called you on it.

The fact you state you support addiction in any form underscores your ignorance of addiction.

We saw through your veiled concerm post and saw it for what it is, a sad rant.

Happy to see you exit the community.

Sayonara!

i love how your still here

ChargeItDownMid1 votes

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Jesus Is My King1 votes

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Helping people is not downvote worthy. However, your methods are more harmful than helpful which is why you are getting downvoted. That is why you are getting downvoted.

what method is harmful in my post

Summonah123691 votes

Lmao 71 days is like 2 months.

Toxicate131 votes

Why are there so many downvotes? Has it really come to this point, where people will get triggered by LITERALLY ANYTHING?

La Belle Sauvage1 votes

I think in this case, the down votes are warranted. Because if you read the thread the OP isn't actually concerned for anyone.

I'd rather they be more up front and state why they hate the game and why we should to. Instead of pretending to be concerned.

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