ADCS and supports: question about how the bot lane goes
So in normals, I was Sona, and the other person picks Vayne. Cool beans. So the other team has an actual duo going Nami and Quinn bot. They are extremely aggressive and start beating us up bot lane. At the end of the game, my ADC went ham on me saying we lost cause I didn't know how bot lane worked (I poked instead of going ham with Vayne to "match the aggressiveness of our enemies." Vayne said that I should be aggressive, because Nami was being aggressive. But I'm Sona, and am mainly a poke support, so should I have been more aggressive and ran in with Vayne? (I'll admit I poked Nami a few times, instead of Quinn, but only cause Nami was closer when I used q). Also, doesn't Nami beat Sona in terms of lane pressure?