"I lost my lane because the jungler didn't gank!"

What if their jungler ganked which caused the waves to be lopsided and they needed you near so they didn't get zoned and the reason top lane lost is because their jungler outplayed your jungler. Then its your fault that top lost.

Your job is to be at the right place at the right time, if they are shoving to my turret repeatedly playing unsafe its your job to punish that or to get something worthwhile elseware on the map so our team wins. If you are bot lane doing crugs while their jungler snowballs every lane then its completely your fault that our team lost.

In general I think people take it too far but especially in swingy top match ups you should gank.

I'm a jungle main. Honestly, if their lane is camped, and the jungler does nothing to help, it is on the jungler slightly. It's excusable though if he at least got other objectives/was ganking other lanes. However, you can't really yell at them for losing the lane if they were ganked, and they never got any ganks, if there were opportunities to.

Ive had games were I have outdamaged them, but got camped hard. Ive had games were it was my counter so they just got fed with Cs or Kills because of no gank.

The only time its true is if the top laner has no map awarness and goes to aggressive, but sometimes people need those ganks to get ahead.