Before you blame the jungler...
Look at yourself first. How do you expect the jungler to help you if you have 15 cs at 8 minutes and gave up first blood to riven and you don't ward and get camped?
If you're low, the jungler most likely can't gank you. Same thing is the jungler is low.
If the jungler is at his red and you're going full ham on your lane opponent then ping for help, don't expect him to be able to come unless it's twisted fate (even at it the range is not enough) or it's tham kench.
Also most junglers can't gank if you push into the enemy tower, unless you're a tank and can tank tower.
Stop blaming the jungle when you go 0/8 because you "first time irelia" and use it as an excuse to why you can't cs on an AD champion.