PSA to "toxic" spammers in chat
Ok, so the title may or may not be misleading, but I didn't know a better way to word it. Now that I have you here, thanks for coming though...
TLDR; asking people to ward or not contest a baron/drag 3v5 when behind is not toxic. Telling people they are idiots when they ignore 3+ times your simple request to play more safely vs fed enemies or WARD when they push is not toxic. People who are "rude" or "toxic" and "reported" for doing telling their teammates these things are not toxic -- you people who report someone as "toxic" for speaking logic are toxic and NEED TO STOP. Whether something was said nicely or rudely doesn't justify you ignoring solid advice/logic.
Dear ranked community, If you are not bronze 3 or below, you should know what a ward is. You should know how to do simple things like using your trinkets - especially if you are going to shove the enemy in and force fights by their tower or in the middle of the lane. You should know it isn't worth trying to 5v5 at dragon or 3v5 contest when you fed 3 of the enemies; rotate to another lane and kill a tower or sneak a baron instead of fighting at drag, losing 3 people to maybe kill 1 person and giving the enemy a free baron or inhib tower push cuz you have 3 people dead. Again, your teammates shouldn't have to tell you this based on your apparent rank. If they do tell you this, you should LISTEN. They don't have to tell you nicely - you should already know - telling you nicely or asking nicely is a BONUS. If you go crash a car into someone, does the other person say, "hey can you please drive more carefully?" or do they say something more like "why did you run into me you idiot?"? Same thing for league - you make a stupid play after teammates specifically tell you not to do something (like 3v5 contest drag when behind) or ask you to do something (like use wards if you are going to push) and your teammates have no reason to have to be nice about reminding you after you ignore them the first time. And people being RUDE about something gives you no right to ignore them AGAIN if the advice is solid. Ignoring solid advice because it was said rudely is as dumb as jumping off the edge of the Grand Canyon and dying because someone rudely told you to stay away from the edge. Wow, that sounds really stupid -- jumping off a canyon doesn't it? So why do people essentially do this in game and think it is ok? Cuz after ignoring solid advice you should ALREADY HAVE KNOWN in the first place for 3 times and finally getting told rudely, you use this as an excuse to keep making dumb decisions and think it is justified because your FEELINGS are hurt by them telling you RUDELY? You know what? You ignoring the other persons' advice 3 times when they asked nicely hurt THEIR FEELINGS. You throwing away any chance to come back and win hurt THEIR FEELINGS. And then people on your team who were doing OK take your side as you continue to int the game away instead of backing up the person who offered solid advice that COULD have given your team a comeback. And your teammate(s) who were just doing Ok join you in harassing the player who is giving the solid shotcalls and advice that is your one hope of making a comeback. You all spam "reported", you ask the enemy team to report him/her/them in post-game when YOU LOSE (cuz u didn't listen) to report them for toxicity. Telling people to ward is not toxic. Telling people they are idiots for dying 7 times in laning alone because they refuse to ward and keep shoving and fighting people they already fed 6 kills to is not toxic. The people shoving and not warding and feeding an impossible to overcome lead to the enemy team because they won't take solid advice IS TOXIC. Refusing to join a team in a 3v5 contest of dragon or a 1v5 attempt to stall baron vs a fed enemy team is NOT TOXIC. Refusing to rotate and take an alternate objective for free and spamming "toxic" "reported" to a teammate who has outplayed a 2v1 camp of his/her lane ALL GAME, asked nicely (and then rudely after ignored 3 times) for his feeding teammates to play more safely is toxic; he did nothing wrong and you are being very rude to him/her. You are not the only person with feelings in the game - get over your selfish pride and listen to sound logic. Get over your selfish pride and do what is best for the team.
If I'm a 3/1/0 bruiser who outplays a 2v1 camp of his lane, I will gladly group and DIE EVERY FIGHT if it gives our team an advantage. I don't care if you are 10/2/1 or 0/3/0, I will die for you IF you have proven you are not an idiot. If you gave up 6+ kills in laning, kept playing agro and dying to ganks because you didn't listen to my simple request to ward; I will NOT group and die for you in teamfights. I will get on your case for refusing to group 4 and hold a tower while I try to carry your feeding ass as I splitpush 1v2. Because when you finally "listen" and play safe ff under tier 2 in a 2v1 or 1v0 lane and apply 0 pressure, I end up with 2 fed enemies and the 2 people I was outplaying all shoving in and tower diving me with no warning from all angles. And then you act like I'm bad because I cannot 1v4 people who you fed? Lol. If I am trash because I cannot 1v4, then what does that make you if you couldn't avoid feeding them when they weren't ahead and you had a 2v2 or 1v1? Just stop and think about that. So next time a teammate asks you to play safer or at least ward your flanks if you are going to push, LISTEN instead of spamming "toxic" "reported" and ignoring. You will find yourself with fewer deaths, maybe more kills, more gold, higher level in game, and a teammate who is willing to die for you rather than one who will gladly watch you crash and burn for the 11th time.