So sick of the blame game

so in my most recent game i was playign kat mid vs nid mid, and was jsut BARELY staying ahead of her becuase i was abel to stay out of her spears, but i coudltn shove lane because everytime i came up to push she woudl dive into me, so i played passivly and even managed to punish a mistake she made when she finally hit me with a spear and thought she coudl all in me from half health, i think you know how that ended.

Now i started to get camped after i got a kill becuase i came back into lane with all the AP, all of it, ALL OF IT. And no one on my team was really helping, instead they wanted to know why i wasnt roaming for kills, then after the lane got shoved pretty hard and i got dove by nid and the jungler i died and nid staretd roaming, and then INSTNALY my team starts flaiming, specifically our ADC, our jungler just kept famring nad ignored the game, our toplane was struggling becuase she was facing cho and... well cho, but our adc was feeding, and had the NERVE to blame me when nid showwed up and started killing her.

and it only got worse from there, nid started doing nothign but roaming, she woudl shove a wave mid poke the tower a couple times then head to a random lane, i tried to follow her but by the time i cleared the wave she had already killed her target and had roamed back mid to shove again, then she went to another lane, and repeated this. and my team staretd to jsut get all up in my face, and to add insult to injury i was chat restricted for some reason, and they were all ignoring pings. then post game i got reported and flamed by our adc.

Really getting tired of this system where if i tell a teammate to watch out i can get a chat ban, but if i get called a cu.nt (not mispelled, thats how its said in game) or a bi-tch they get off scott free. at this point the system is jsut broken if players who use it responsibly egt muted and those who abuse it can roam free.